Update: Beckett's Lymphangioma

Beckett's sclerotherapy procedure went smoothly yesterday and he did so great!  

This kid.... he is really something else.  He was happy as ever all day at the hospital despite not having eaten anything since dinner the night before.  Of course the fact that the hospital had a huge model train exhibit didn't hurt, nor did the fact that as soon as we got called back to the room Mickey Mouse Clubhouse came on TV.  He was so brave while they did their checkup on him-- he'd developed some anxiety about having his blood pressure taken several times these last few weeks but we talked for days about his big strong muscles and how the nurse would check the muscles in his arm and he handled it like a champ.  He also hates getting the little oxygen reader on his finger ever since he had to get his finger pricked when they did the blood work at the beginning of all this, but even that he took in stride.  Kolby and I died laughing though because he was sitting in the hospital bed with his hands in his lap, then the nurse walked in and talked about testing his oxygen and without saying a word or taking his eyes off the TV he just casually slipped both hands under the blanket to hide them.  Sweet boy.

This was his third time under general anesthesia (all in the past six months too... adenoids out, MRI on his neck, now this) and thankfully he handles it really well.  The procedure took about an hour and the doctor said everything went as planned. Now it's a waiting game--the doctor said there's about a 50/50 chance the cyst will recur and if it's going to it usually happens within a few weeks.  If that happens (which we are praying it doesn't!), he'll need this same procedure one more time.  But whether it's a one-and-done or two-and-done thing, we're holding tight to the "and done" part and are ready to have this all behind us.

We were on the road home by mid-afternoon yesterday and Beckett fell asleep in the car then napped at home for a few hours.  When he woke up, he was back to his same old chipper self.  He didn't need the pain medicine they prescribed and you would seriously never know anything had happened (he still doesn't know anything ever happened, ha).  And we are so thankful for people in the medical field because we had wonderful care all throughout this process and if it weren't for advances in medicine our only option would have been surgery.  Instead, Beckett came home with just two tiny band-aids that are already off and was running around like a wildman by dinnertime.  His neck is still quite pudgy where they cyst was, but we hear it should go down some over time and is already only noticeable if you look for it.

Thank you all for praying for him and for us.  And I'll leave you with a few more pictures of this resilient little trooper yesterday after we got home.

Beckett's Lymphangioma

*We had a medical issue arise with Beckett (he's fine though!) and I'm going to interrupt our regularly scheduled programming to give some details here to keep our family and friends informed.*

Just over a month ago Beckett developed a swollen area on the right side of his neck.  It looked just like the typical toddler pudgy neck or double chin, except it was just on one side.  He had a little cold so I assumed it was a swollen lymph node or something, and we weren't worried about it.  After a few days it hadn't gone away so we  took him to the pediatrician to get it checked out.
Cute kid, huh? :)  You can see the bulge here, if you look for it.  It does not bother him in the slightest, in fact he has no idea it's even there.

The pediatrician said it wasn't a swollen lymph node and was a bit stumped as to what it would be.  She wasn't concerned about it per se, but did think we should figure out what it was.  She ran blood work (to see if it was due to an infection, and also to rule out cancer).  The blood work all came back fine, and the next step was getting an ultrasound done on it.  I'm not sure what was really learned from the ultrasound, but we were then referred to a pediatric surgery group.  The pediatric surgeon suspected it is something called a lymphangioma (also known as a cystic hygroma or lymphatic malformation), which is a rare non-malignant mass consisting of fluid-filled spaces thought to be caused by the abnormal development of the lymphatic system. They are almost almost always found in the neck and are usually detected prenatally and apparent at birth, but can occasionally appear in children up to two years old after the onset of a cold (when the immune system--which includes the lymphatic system--is in high gear).  The latter is what happened in Beckett's case.

The surgeon ordered an MRI, which we did (unfortunately it involved putting Beckett under general anesthesia, but thankfully he did fine with it) and it confirmed the lymphangioma diagnosis and gave the surgeon a detailed sense of what to expect when he were to go in to surgically remove it.  Side note: the reason we can't just let it be (since it doesn't bother him) is it can get infected, and also that as it continues to grow it can interfere with his airway or other structures.  Thankfully the MRI showed that the cyst is "not very involved"--meaning it is not entangled with major veins, arteries, muscles, and nerves, although it is in close proximity to all that stuff.  Bottom line: the neck is just not an ideal place to operate on.  We asked the surgeon if there were any other options besides surgery and in short, his answer was no.  He said Beckett's case is a good candidate for surgery and likely would have a really good outcome, but the surgery comes with some risks and the main one is a small chance of nerve damage to the arm.  Plus he'd have a pretty sizable scar along his neck.

For a few reasons I wasn't really loving the surgeon, and we decided if we're going to do this we might as well do it all the way and go ahead and seek a second opinion.  I got in touch with my best friend Laura's oldest sister who is a surgeon in the area and asked if she had any suggestions, and she got back to me right away with a pediatric surgeon at the big children's hospital in our city, saying he is "phenomenal."  

We met with him this past Wednesday and right from the start I felt a million times better about him than the previous surgeon.  And that was even before he gave his recommendation, which was that he did not need surgery (!!!!!).  He basically said surgery is an outdated approach to dealing with lymphangiomas and that they are now able to treat them with a minimally-invasive approach called sclerotherapy, which is performed by a radiologist who pokes the cyst and drains it, then injects and flushes it with an antibiotic to cause inflammation in the outer wall of the cyst, collapsing those vessels to prevent it from recurring.  Another side note: the chance of recurrence is one of the problems with these things--if you don't get the whole outer wall (either by attacking it directly with antibiotics via sclerotherapy or by attempting to remove it surgically)--the cyst can come back.  But it's our understanding that there isn't reason to think the chance of recurrence would be more or less likely with sclerotherapy versus surgery, and sclerotherapy has the obvious benefit of avoiding major surgery.  And if it were to come back, doing sclerotherapy a second time would be no big deal whereas operating on his neck a second time would be "a mess."

Our sweet boy waiting on the doctor on Wednesday.
These pictures below show the mass/cyst, which has grown substantially in the past week or so after being hardly noticeable for a few weeks.
 How handsome is he? :)  He's been such a trooper through all of this.  And he still has no idea anything is even going on.

So, we met with the chief of radiology at the children's hospital this morning and Beckett is scheduled for the sclerotherapy procedure on Monday.  Needless to say, we are now big fans of academic-based children's hospitals, which are at the forefront of innovation and at least in this case, superior to the private-practice group.  And of getting a second opinion!

Anyway, so Monday is the big day.  The procedure will be done under general anesthesia, but Beckett will go home right afterward with simply a band-aid to show for this whole ordeal.  We can hardly believe it!  We are so thankful for the Lord's provision through all of this, and after spending time in waiting rooms at a children's hospital, we are more grateful than ever for the good health of our children.  But please to join us in praying for Beckett's procedure Monday--for no fear and for full and complete healing.

And speaking of waiting rooms, here's one last picture just for fun.
Yes that is Beckett dressed as a dinosaur and no I don't have an explanation as to why.

Eight Months Photos

I dusted off my real camera and took some pictures of Samuel when he was about 8 months old.  Enjoy :)
 

San Diego

When we had Beckett we decided to make a family tradition of taking a vacation together every year.  It’s just something we want to make a priority in terms of effort and money—to carve out time to do something together just us, and have new experiences and make memories.  When Beckett was a baby we went to Chicago, then when he was a year old we went to spring training, and this summer we decided to take the boys to San Diego!

I had snagged us an amazing deal on flights but the catch was a 7am departure time. So our alarm clock went off dark and early but we made it to the airport and on to San Diego in high spirits.

We headed straight to the San Diego Zoo and made it there right after it opened.  It was a fun day!
We saw the pandas and so loved watching Beckett run around and enjoy all the animals.  He said the tigers were his favorite.  Samuel was the best little stroller passenger and had a blast because it takes nothing to make that kid happy.
 Beckett loves I Spy books so the reptile house was a big hit because he got to look for the snake, lizard, spider, etc. in each window.  It was a highlight of the day.

We rented a 2 bedroom house (from vrbo.com) and it was perfect!  We got a really good deal on it so it wasn't more than a decent hotel room but gave us a lot more flexibility.  The boys had room to play and it had a kitchen (eating out with little kids isn't exactly a picnic, so we packed lunches and cooked easy meals), a laundry room and a ton of beach toys.

Day 2 was all about taking our sandbox-loving boy to the beach for the first time!
It was love at first sight.  
 Little dude was also a big fan!  He loved grabbing fistfuls of sand.  And ate a fair share as well.
 We even saw some dolphins. 

 That night we went to a Padres game and had a blast.
They have a lawn behind center field which this handsome devil sure enjoyed.

Day 3 we went to Balboa Park.  Where we played some baseball....
Went to a puppet show...
And visited the Air and Space Museum.

Day 4 was SEA WORLD!  It was seriously amazing.  We all had so much fun.
 Ever since I was a kid I've been afraid of whales (I just looked it up and it actually has a name: megalohydrothalassophobia- fear of big things underwater).  The things we do for our kids ;)
 Looks like Beckett totally gets it-- never turn your back to a whale, buddy.
 Samuel was a big fan though!
Beckett really wanted to touch a dolphin, but one never came close enough.  Womp, womp.
 But he did get to touch a tiny shark!
Samuel loved all the aquariums.  So much to see!
Beckett's favorite exhibit was the polar bears.

 Brothers!

Filled with so much wonder :)
A highlight of the day (and trip, actually) was that Beckett got to meet Elmo and Cookie Monster at the Sesame Street themed kids area.  Beckett's not all that into Sesame Street but we really tried to hype it up because he developed a fear of people dressed up in costumes (mascots, etc.) ever since Kolby took the boys to the aquarium over his spring break and they had a group of Mayan dancers that really freaked him out, then around that same time we went to a couple of college basketball games and he seemed suspicious of the mascots.  It was actually a bigger deal than it sounds because the poor little guy couldn't really process his feelings (he didn't cry when he saw them but was just very, very interested in keeping track of where they were at all times) and had trouble sleeping and worst of all--a couple times he asked if "those guys" (the Mayan dancers) were going to come into his room.  Anyway, kids universally love Elmo so we tried to use the opportunity to get him past his fear.  We really talked up how cool it will be to meet Elmo and his friends and sure enough, Beckett greeted them happily and was so excited and even seemed proud of himself.
 (I'm not even joking when I say this picture above makes me so proud of him.  Facing his fears and even HUGGING a giant mascot.)
Anytime he seems reserved about a mascot we talk about meeting Elmo and his friends and how mascots are fun and friendly yada yada.  It really has helped.

Day 5 (our last day) we went to La Jolla to see the seals and spend some more time at the beach.
Beach baby!
My explorers.
I absolutely love vacation.  Everything about it.  I love planning it, looking forward to it, even packing for it.  And of course the vacation itself.  Now that we have kids, I especially love the chance to get away with them and just enjoy hanging out and having fun with them without anything else in the way.
And this is probably my favorite picture from the whole trip.  What a crew!

We went into this thinking that taking a vacation with a toddler and a baby is going to be tiring and stressful and crazy but that the good will hopefully outweigh the bad.  For my own memory's sake I want to say for the record that this trip was shockingly very nearly all good.  The boys were amazing.  All the things that could have spelled disaster--like Samuel not ever getting in a nap, or Beckett having meltdowns, either of them not sleeping well at night, or someone getting sick--all actually worked out wonderfully and the boys were so cooperative in every way which is really not a given at their ages.  We had so much fun and I'm so glad we did this.  Even though our next vacation may be a nightmare to make up for how we lucked out on this one :)

[Let me stick these in here at the end.  Beckett sure knows how to vacation!]
 
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