And We're Off!

Our family is about to leave for our two week vacation to Australia to celebrate Russell's high school graduation! And yes, we are ALL be sporting t-shirts to the airport that have the above graphic on the front and an even sillier one on the back. What did I do this year to delay studying for finals?... Draw each family member as a cartoon kangaroo and design a kickin' t-shirt for this trip, of course!

Merry Christmas!

The Icing on the Cake

On Monday (our actual FIRST anniversary) we thawed the top of our wedding cake and enjoyed sharing a slice of what used to be a delectable masterpiece. It actually tasted OK, but it was the mental notion that we were eating cake that was a year old that put a damper on the enjoyment. It's tradition, though--- and we were glad to keep it alive.

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Also, we want to say THANK YOU to everyone who celebrated with us on our wedding day and everyone who continues to support and encourage us in our life together. We are truly blessed!

1st Anniversary Weekend

In honor of our first anniversary, we hosted our parents for a nostalgic celebration of the wonderful wedding weekend that they had blessed us with now one year ago. We are so grateful to them not only for that most beautiful and perfect time of celebrating our marriage with our family and friends, but for continuing to shower us with love and support. We had the wedding of our dreams -- so far beyond what I ever could have imagined -- and we are so fortunate to have begun our life together in such a special way. Thank you, thank you, from the bottom of our hearts :)

They arrived on Friday evening just in time for the most delicious (if I do say so myself) gourmet dinner where we used all of the fancy tableware that has been in boxes since our wedding. We showed them our new wedding album and we watched the video of our wedding ceremony and a photo slideshow that Kolby and I had put together. We made caramel apples for dessert and then just chatted, reminiscing about the wedding and how much fun it all was. Kolby cooked oatmeal with fresh fruit for breakfast on Saturday morning and we played dominoes and just hung out until we took them to lunch at a cafe downtown. We all had a great time and I hope that in some small way were able to express to them our love and gratitude.

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After our parents left, Kolby and I packed a bag and headed to Fort Worth to celebrate our anniversary together. We went to dinner at the famous Joe T. Garcia's restaurant and then strolled around Sundance Square (downtown) which was beautifully lit up for Christmas and it somehow was 70 degrees outside so we could actually spend time outside enjoying it. We stayed at a nice hotel downtown and spent Sunday morning at the Fort Worth Zoo (duh!) and then went to lunch at a restaurant near the stock yards.

I had actually never been to Fort Worth before... who knew there were so many fun things to do?!? The weather was beautiful again on Sunday which made everything even more perfect. We had a wonderful time together and look forward to the many many more anniversaries to come!

Marley & Me

Just after we were married, Kolby and I took up the pastime of reading books together. We started with The Princess Bride and then moved on to a couple books from The Chronicles of Narnia. We read in bed at night and Kolby reads the book aloud until I fall asleep. Lately we've been on a reading hiatus as things have gotten busy and we haven't been able to agree on what book to read next. Then last week the book Marley & Me came to mind and I remembered hearing really good things about it from Kolby's mom and some of my friends.

We thought about bringing it to read together on our trip to Australia but given the fact that it's a sweet story about an owner and his dog, we decided not to read it while we were parted from Maya so as to not repeat the emotional breakdown that took place when we made the mistake of watching the movie Eight Below on a portable DVD player a couple weeks into our time in Ghana this summer.

So, we started reading the book last week and I am so happy to be back in the night-reading routine. Kolby is really really good at reading out loud. I had taken it for granted until the other night when for some crazy reason I volunteered to read. Big mistake. I seriously sounded like a 1st grader practicing reading to her dad at bedtime. "Though his very helplessness, --- oh wait, I mean --- Through his very helplessness, ...". It was bad. The following conversation occurred after one page:

K: "Here, I'll go back to reading. I don't mind."

E: "I'm sorry. I don't think I'm a very good reader."

K, gently: "No... you're not great at it."

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In other news, on my last day of classes I had to give a presentation with a fat lip. A fat lip that I got from falling down the stairs in our apartment. We were trying to get out the door to church and just as I was about to start down the stairs, I accidentally stepped into the cuff at the bottom of my pants leg with my opposite heel (as in the tiny stiletto heel to my dress shoes). So, that foot got hung up and was therefore not free to take the first step down the stairs like my already forward-leaning body was needing it to. An incredibly awkward, loud, and painful face-first fiasco ensued and I'm still finding bruises on my body.

Thanksgiving

We spent Thanksgiving break with Kolby's family in the Texas hill country. We had a great time relaxing, watching plenty of college football, eating WAY too much Thanksgiving food, playing games, and spending time with family. The house we stayed at was on a few acres of fenced property and Maya was in doggie heaven getting to roam around and explore things off-leash.

We looked forward to this vacation for quite awhile and are sad that it has come and gone so quickly. But, just a few more weeks of school (albeit a miserable few weeks) then we're off on our next adventure!
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Kolby and I have so much to be thankful for this year. God has blessed us in countless ways this year and we are daily reminded of His provision in our lives. This Thanksgiving we are especially thankful for our family, our simple and happy life here in Waco, our little Maya (I'm slightly embarrassed to say that at church last week we were given index cards to write a few things we are thankful for and Maya had a prime spot on both our lists), our quaint apartment, and most of all-- that our unknown future is in the Lord's hands and not our own.

First Application is In!

For those of you who don't know this already, Kolby is in the process of applying to creative writing graduate programs. Writing was something he really took an interest in while he was at Wheaton (college) and he got his undergraduate degree in English: Writing. There are four programs that he is applying to --- University of Missouri, University of Texas, Seattle Pacific University and Vanderbilt. They are all very different from each other and some have Masters programs and some have Masters/PhD programs. Unfortunately, the acceptance rates for these particular programs are VERY low... as low as 2% and only as high as about 13%. So the odds of getting into any of the four are stacked against him, but we figured it was worth a shot. Depending on which program he were to get into/choose, his future "career path" could be continuing to teach high school English and writing as a side career, teaching English/Writing at a collegiate level, or pursuing some other option that peaks his interest. He is quite content continuing to teach high school for the near future so if he were to not get into any of the programs he'll do that and possibly re-apply later on or start considering other types of graduate programs.

Kolby submitted his application to UT today and the others will soon follow, but it won't be until late Spring that we will hear back from all of the schools. So, our future as of June 2009 is one huge question mark but we're somehow OK with that. But- we would certainly appreciate your prayers as we navigate this next phase in our lives together. It is NOT a good time for me (or anyone) to be entering the job market, especially since I don't even know what state to be looking in. It'll all work out though..... right?!?!

Ramblings

I found out last week that my (in-progress) thesis paper was selected for Baylor's graduate scholarship forum and I ended up with an unexpected $100 in my pocket. I decided that I would of course deposit it into our savings account. Then, a few days ago I was taking a shower and accidentally squeezed a little too much shaving cream into my hand. I immediately started thinking about how I could go about saving the extra so that I could use it next time... I mean, shaving cream isn't free. This incident brought to my attention what a ridiculous level my frugal tendencies have reached. I later committed to frivolously spending the $100 "scholarship" money in order to restore some balance to my spending habits.

Today I went to Old Navy and spent the entire $100 on winter clothes for Kolby and I. I bought 4 sweaters for him and 3 for me (How? I still kept to the sales tables... baby steps, right?). At the front of the store I found two sweaters that I thought were surprisingly stylish, tried them on and loved them, and later returned to the table of sweaters only to notice that the mannequin modeling one of the sweaters was a man and that it was in fact a table of Men's sweaters. That explained the funny look the saleswoman in the dressing room gave me when I asked for a smaller size, and my short-lived self-esteem boost of needing the smaller size in the first place. This confirmed (once again) that I should never go shopping by myself.

In other news, we spent a wonderful weekend in Arkadelphia, AR visiting our friends Tyler & Erin. We had so much fun catching up, chatting about their upcoming wedding, introducing them to the glory of Arrested Development, and playing several rousing games of Blokus. Once again Kolby and I were reminded of how blessed we are to have such great friends in our lives.

We're now in the home stretch until Thanksgiving break, and then in one month we'll be on a plane headed to Australia for Christmas!!!
 
***Oh, and I bought those sweaters anyways***

Wedded Bliss and an 80th Birthday

This weekend we attended our first wedding since our own. It was at the Arboretum and was absolutely beautiful. Best wishes to my cousin Kyle and his bride Melissa! My little cousins Addi and Jackson were the CUSTEST flower girl and ring bearer and I can't believe it has been almost a year since Addi was my precious flower girl. Jackson was only 8 months old at our wedding, but he made his big wedding party debut at this one and I don't think there is anything in the world more adorable than a handsome 1-year-old in a tuxedo! Here's a short video clip of him tearin' it up on the dance floor:



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This weekend we also got to spend some time with Kolby's whole family and celebrate his grandfather's 80th birthday! We were even able to snap a family photo while everyone was in town for the celebration:

Back: Kason (older brother), Kolby, Kevin (dad)
Front: Sarah (sister-in-law), me, Kassidy (younger sister), Roycee (mom)

Maya as a Puppy

Every now and then when I'm really wanting to bring procrastination to a whole new level, I'll waste a few minutes online looking at pictures of husky mutts to try to find one that looks like Maya because I would love to know what other breed she is mixed with. No luck so far, but I did run across this picture of a husky-labrador puppy that is pretty much the cutest thing ever.

Obviously Maya doen't have any labrador in her, but this puppy has markings that are IDENTICAL to Maya's markings and I'd like to think Maya was as cute as this little girl when she was a puppy. She was full grown when we adopted her so we'll never know what she really looked like, but I think this picture is pretty darn close. So precious.

Baylor Homecoming

This weekend was Baylor's Homecoming and we enjoyed all of the festivities with some of our favorite Baylor alumni. Brad & Remy (my brother and sister-in-law) stayed with us for the weekend and we loved getting to spend so much time with them. Some friends of theirs (and ours) stayed with us too so we had 6 people and 4 dogs for 3 days in our 1 small apartment. It was quite crazy around here but we loved the company and Maya enjoyed having dog friends around, although I think she's glad to have the place to herself again. Here are some pictures from the weekend:

Our family at the Friday night bonfire
At the Saturday morning parade
(sister-in-law Remy, older brother Brad, me, younger brother Russell)Kolby and I at the Baylor football gameChocolate caramel apples that we all made on Saturday night...so delicious!
Enjoying our VERY HAPPY little dog

Such a fun weekend! Sic 'em Bears!

Pumkin Carving

We decided to bring in the fall season by hosting a pumpkin carving extravaganza with some friends. Kolby put the whole impromptu event together to continue his grandmother's annual tradition of pumpkin artistry. The evening was complete with hot apple cider, Monday night football, roasted pumpkin seeds, and awards for pumpkin-carving talent.

Cleaning out the pumpkin goopKolby hogging the Princess Pumpkin-Carving Kit tools that we bought at the grocery storeOur final products at their best: Kolby's pumpkin calling for Batman and my pumpkin just sitting there being the amazing masterpiece that it is. If this isn't a creative display of raw talent then I don't know what is! The whole gangThe pumpkin line-up
We all had a great time and Kolby and I ended the night chatting about how blessed we are with our little life here. We have wonderful friends and have jobs that let us spend time with them often. And our apartment is very old and small but we love it and that night it held 8 people carving pumpkins and smelled like yummy apple cider so what more could we possibly need?

October Twenty-Sixth

Today is the first October 26th in 7 years that we aren't celebrating as our "anniversary" anymore. We have a new one now, and although a wedding anniversary is much more official than a dating anniversary, it is a little bittersweet to be starting over. I don't think an October 26th will ever pass by without thoughts of how our story began. We were sixteen and chatting on my front porch after a school event that we had attended "as friends" when Kolby kissed me. We awkwardly didn't really speak much for a couple days afterwards and then eventually decided that we might as well start dating since we'd already kissed and I suppose that means we both like each other :). He proposed to me on that same front porch almost 6 years later.

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In other news, I presented part of my thesis research on micro-credit yesterday at the Baylor Symposium of Faith and Culture: Bottom-Up Approaches to Global Poverty. I was pretty nervous about it because it was my first time to do a presentation for anyone except other students in my classes so I was quite intimidated by the audience of professors from universities all over the country and ministry practitioners from all over the world. It went really well, though, and now it's time to get back to all of the schoolwork I've been neglecting.

Lil' Two-Five

My brother's t-shirt company has just launched a chilren's line, Lil' Two-Five. Each t-shirt purchased still provides a chicken for a poverty-stricken family in India. So, if you have any kiddos or even know any kiddos --- buy them a cool t-shirt and know you've changed the life of a family in need. Here are a couple of the designs:

Go to http://www.25cloth.com/ to buy a shirt!

A Winning Weekend

Kolby took the GRE on Saturday and knocked the socks off of it-- one of the many highlights of our weekend! Others included Texas beating Oklahoma ([college football] to Kolby this was probably a bigger deal than the GRE success), a visit from my best friend/college roommate Laura who I hadn't seen since she moved to Colorado this summer, watching Baylor win a conference football game (not a common occurrence!), and an afternoon taking care of our favorite kiddos:

Addi helped Kolby take Maya on her daily walk through campus and Jackson enjoyed our stop to visit the Baylor mascots.
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Queso, Michael Phelps, and Cookie Cake

Kolby and I finally got around to celebrating my birthday, which was back in August. We were in Ghana on my actual birthday and then my birthday present didn't come in the mail until this week so we've had to delay the celebration. What did I ask for for my birthday that took so long to arrive? The MICHAEL PHELPS: INSIDE STORY OF THE BEIJING GAMES dvd, of course! Isn't that what everyone requests for their birthday? I know it may sound strange/random, but we were in Africa for the vast majority of the Olympics - obviously without access to any television - and missed the whole Michael Phelps phenomenon. So, neither of us had seen a single second of any of the races. Spoiler alert: He wins all 8.

Our evening started with a yummy dinner at Ninfa's, my favorite Mexican food restaurant in Waco. I got to order all of the things that we're usually too frugal to spring for like QUESO, a topping for our fajitas, and a coke! I mean it just doesn't get much better than that. Then it was two full hours of Michael Phelps commemoration followed by a delicious dessert --- a mondo cookie cake that Maya had ordered for me. She's so thoughtful.

It may not have been the most conventional of birthday celebrations, but it was quite perfect and certainly worth the wait!

Help?

I'm getting to spend this beautiful Saturday cooped up at my desk studying for a microeconomics test that will most certainly be the death of me. I vaguely remember the head of the economics department telling me (years ago) that if I plan to go on to graduate school in economics then I should use my undergraduate electives towards upper-level math classes. But what fun would that have been? Not nearly as much fun as taking classes like "backpacking & camping" and using the spare time to plan a wedding! The fun was short-lived. So if any of you math guru's out there have any insight on the following topics, it would sure save me some time on Wikipedia.com:
Quasi-concavity, homothetic functions, Euler's theorem, Marshallian demand vs. Hicksian demand, log-function rule, matrix determinants, second principal minors, bordered Hessian matrices, Lagrangian multipliers, monotonic transformations, Cobb-Douglas utility, the envelope theorem, or Shepherd's lemma.
Seriously, who comes up with this stuff?

Wedding Album

We finally got to see the design of our wedding album this week, via e-mail. Who knows when we'll actually have it in our hands, but this certainly suffices for now! Here are a few pages:
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What a wonderful, wonderful day!

Memory Lane

I was cleaning out some stuff around my computer today and came across a CD with pictures of Kolby and I from high school. I thought I'd share my walk down memory lane...

Dressed as G.I. Joe & G.I. Jane for a costume banquet... age 16.

In St. Louis, Missouri on a church mission trip... age 17.

At youth camp... age 15.
I think I may even still have braces at this point. And, if you think Kolby is lanky now--- check out those legs in this picture!!!

I feel like we've changed a lot since then but when I take a look at pictures like these it seems like we're exactly the same and that no time has passed at all. It was this time of year at a high school football game EIGHT years ago that we awkwardly talked about how we both liked each other.
And that's how it all began...

www.25cloth.com

My older brother's t-shirt company has a new initiative for this quarter. Now, every t-shirt you buy will provide a chicken for a poverty-stricken family in India. Chickens can produce up to 40 dozen eggs per year, providing these families with a steady source of food and income.


Check out www.25cloth.com and buy a shirt that can change the life of a family in India!
Here are some of the t-shirt designs: For $20 you can have a cool shirt and know you've helped a family in need... so why not join the Two-Five movement?!?!

Heartbroken

I'm sorry for the back-to-back dog posts. I promise I won't make a habit of it! Today was the first Saturday in MONTHS that we've been home at our apartment so we took advantage of the leisurely day and cooked a big breakfast. Maya assumed that because I was in the kitchen cooking-- it must be dinnertime. I tried to tell her that it's not time for her dinner yet, but she obviously didn't understand. Thinking she must have misbehaved so badly that she didn't even deserve her dinner for the day, she retreated to the living room so ashamed of herself that she even had to hide her face. She is still being a mope about it... silly dog!

Such a Lady

Maya hasn't gotten much face time on the blog lately so I thought I'd post a couple of new pictures. She crosses her front legs like this pretty much anytime she's laying down... such a little lady.

We think Maya is the best dog... ever. She's the happiest dog in the world but also very calm. She's totally silent and possesses none of the annoying dog habits like jumping on people, begging for attention, getting into things she's not supposed to, etc. She is also a snuggler, especially when it's getting close to bedtime. And she's BEAUTIFUL! I'd say 9 out of 10 people that I pass on the sidewalk when I'm taking her on a walk comment on how pretty she is. Add that to the mystery of not knowing what breed of dog she really is (obviously mostly husky, but she only weighs 33 pounds so she's got to be mixed with something else) and she's just the whole package. I couldn't recommend rescuing a dog from an animal shelter highly enough... especially ones that are full-grown like Maya was when we got her. Such a joy!

NEW, NEW, and more NEW!

There is all sorts of NEW stuff going on around our house these days!
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We have a NEW neighbor!
My younger brother, Russell, started school here at Baylor this week and his dorm is four blocks away from our apartment. Lucky kid, right? We're happy to have him here and I'm glad to see him carry on the Baylor family legacy (he'll be the 17th Baylor graduate in our family). He's already following in his brother's footsteps of "happening" to call right around dinnertime "just" to see what I was doing. Cooking for three is just as easy as cooking for two and we enjoy the company just as much as he enjoys the free food so no complaints here.
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We have NEW kitchen appliances!
Our apartment complex changed management while we were in Ghana and I guess the new people took one look at the kitchen appliances and immediately tore them out. We had no idea this happened so we were very pleasantly surprised when we walked in and found a brand new refrigerator, dishwasher, and oven! We were already SO GLAD to be back to our apartment and all of the new stuff plus the fact that we had just picked up Maya after missing her for three weeks made for one happy household. Fingers crossed for a new washer/dryer!
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Kolby is teaching at a NEW school!
Tuesday was Kolby's first day to teach at his new school and he LOVES it! He teaches five classes of 9th grade English and has just one lesson plan to handle. Compare that to last year where he taught six classes and had to prepare six different lesson plans and you can see why he is such a happy camper. I'm so proud of him and so happy that he's had such a great start to his school year. And, the school dress code requires that he wear a tie so he also got to get a whole new wardrobe last week. Combine that with the kickin' briefcase he got for his birthday and he is just one dapper fellow these days.

We're Back!

Kolby and I made it back safe and sound from our three wonderful weeks volunteering in Ghana, West Africa. It was definitely the experience of a lifetime and we had such a great time soaking up the Ghanaian culture and sharing in the work of Village Exchange Ghana (VEG).

In addition to his work with the youth at VEG's resource center, Kolby taught basic numeracy and literacy to the two groups of young women involved in VEG's income-generation projects. Here is a picture of Kolby teaching in the village of Takla, where these women participate in VEG's Lady Volta Beads Project. As most of them are teen mothers, the project allows them to work flexible hours making jewelry in order to earn income for themselves while still being able to care for their children. You can view the Lady Volta Beads catalog here.

Here is a picture of the four seamstresses who participate in VEG's Lady Volta Batik project listening to Kolby's lesson on decimals (batik: textile-dyeing technique common in Ghana).

I worked with VEG's micro-credit program and spent most of my time with the rural women who participate in the program. These women use the small loans to aid their self-employment activities which usually consists of the trading of commodities such as vegetables, maize, fish, or household provisions. It was an eye-opening experience, and there are so many difficulties associated with the implementation of micro-credit that I would have never really understood without seeing it all first-hand.

Here is a picture taken at a meeting I held with the loan groups in the village of Helekpe.

Here's a picture of me in Helekpe with Mary, the chairperson of one of the loan groups, who gave me a bottle of honey that had been produced by a the women in her group.

Here is a group of women who produce palm kernel oil, a substitute for vegetable oil that is made from the seeds of an oil palm tree.

One weekend we made the treacherous 3-hour climb up Mount Adaklu. Here is a picture of us at the top.

Unfortunately, going down was even more difficult than going up. I didn't fare too well (huge hip bruise, rolled ankle, ants in my hair, etc.). Let's just say that if we were keeping score it would be Ghana-1, Emily-0.

Kolby, however, thoroughly enjoyed every part of the excursion. Here he is in front of the mountain with our "tour guide" (11-year old boy), Wonda.

Another weekend we went to a village called Tafi Atome where we visited a monkey sanctuary and rode bikes to a kente cloth weaving village.


It was a great trip, but after three weeks of cold showers, mosquito bites, unfamiliar food, and a $6.50/night hotel room, we were eager to make it home! We are grateful for the amazing experience and send our love back to VEG and our new friends there!

 
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