It's been awhile since these were taken, but I want to share a few anyway. Here are Beckett's newborn pictures, which were taken on his one week birthday. In some ways he's changed a lot but in other ways he looks exactly the same to me!
One Month Old
What we did together this month:
-Listened to lots of Christmas music (mostly Mariah Carey, obviously)
-Laughed at Beckett's adorable facial expressions
-Stared at the Christmas tree with all the lights and ornaments
-Met lots of family and friends (Beckett is still working on matching names with faces)
-Napped
-Found ourselves covered in Beckett's various bodily fluids (sometimes all three of us at once)
-Had staring contests
-Spent a week at the ranch
-Kolby and Beckett hung out in their living room "man cave" between the hours of 12-6 a.m. several nights
-Watched The West Wing as a family while I fed Beckett
-Had a successful family errand to a mattress store and a less successful one to Target
-Went to church twice
-Spent uninterrupted time as a family, with the exception of 2.5 days that Kolby worked
Here are some of Beckett's favorite things in his first month of life:
-Motion
-Laying on his changing pad
-When we hold him and bounce on the exercise ball
-Baths
-Walks with his dad, in the carrier
-Looking at contrast (dark picture frames on a light wall, ceiling fans,
people with dark glasses frames or dark facial hair, etc.)
-Sleeping on his stomach on our chests
-Being swaddled
-Riding in the car, as long as it’s moving
-Mom and Dad's voices
-Eating
-Peeing on us
Here are some of my favorite things about Beckett:
-His milk breath
-All of his facial expressions, especially when he makes his mouth into
a tiny “O”
-How he sticks out his chest insanely far when he stretches
-His absolutely divine newborn hair
-The profile of his sweet face
-His inadvertent grins
-How when I burp him over my shoulder, he always gets in the sweetest
poses with his hands up under his (double) chin
-His tiny long fingers
-How he sleeps with his mouth wide open
-How he sleeps with his mouth wide open
-His impossibly smooth baby skin
-How when I hold him over my shoulder when he's hungry, he turns his
head to mine and starts sucking on my face.
It’s like he's a little starfish.
He's gotten a really good latch onto my cheeks, chin, and nose.
A Month in Pictures
It turns out that having a newborn is quite time consuming :). Particularly when your precious newborn doesn't care to sleep at all during the day, instead preferring to be held 100% of the time, and further preferring to continuously alternate between the over-the-shoulder pat, the cradled-in-forearms jiggle, and the hold-me-any-way-you-want-but-you-must-be-bouncing-on-the-big-exercise-ball.
I have no complaints about any of this---we hoped for a snuggler---I simply mean to explain why blogging is not yet on my radar screen!
If you can believe it, I haven't even been able get out my nice camera and capture decent pictures of this little guy, who is undoubtedly the most handsome baby of all time. I plan to remedy that this week.
For now I at least want to put up some pictures from my phone. Enjoy!
That Time I Had a 9 Pound Baby: Beckett's Birth Story
Beckett's birthday was absolutely perfect.
It was different than we expected, but it was completely perfect!
I want to document his birth story before
I start to forget any of the details. It was such a special day for us.
I had been having some signs of labor for
a couple of weeks, particularly several bouts of contractions and false labor,
so we knew I would go into labor soon. But then again, "soon"
didn't mean much to us because of course I would go into labor
"soon"... I was past my due date and we knew he couldn't stay in
there forever! We were just biding our time hoping every night that it
would be the night. We were doing everything we could to bring on labor.
We walked 2-3 miles every evening. Most nights ended with a dance
party in our living room to Vanilla Ice's Ninja Rap.
We were so ready to meet our son!
I woke up on Saturday morning (Dec. 8)
around 2 a.m. with fairly strong contractions. I didn't make much of it
because this had happened three times before. I did what I had previously
done and what they tell you to do... try to ignore it, then take a bath to see
if it makes the contractions stop. The contractions didn't stop and
started getting a little stronger, so I woke Kolby up at 4 a.m. to tell him
what was going on and that I was going to take another bath.
The next couple of hours are a bit of a
blur, but we started timing the contractions and by 6 a.m. they were very, very
painful and coming about every 2-3 minutes. We loaded up and headed to
the hospital.
I had three contractions in the very short
walk from the car to the L&D check-in desk. I was that crazy lady in
slippers crouched on the floor, gripping the side rail and groaning as people
walked by and stared :). But we made it to our room and got settled in
with our midwife and sweet nurse.
To back up a little, Kolby and I prepared
for a natural childbirth. To say we planned on one is too strong; we knew
better than to plan much of anything. Our objective was simply a safe
delivery. But our hope was to labor naturally as long as possible, if not
the whole time, although we were open to getting some help if needed.
Well, two words stood between us and the
birth experience we had planned
for. Back labor. I knew nothing about it, but a quick Google
search just now defines it as, "Intense lower back
pain that some laboring women feel during contractions. A few women even feel
it between contractions." At some point early on at the hospital, all
of the pain moved to my lower back and it never let up. I couldn't even
tell when I was having a contraction because the back pain was much more
intense than the pain from the contractions, and it was essentially constant.
I've never felt anything like it.
I was able to handle the pain thanks to
a lot of help from Kolby, my mom, our midwife, and our nurse. They helped
me stay focused with my breathing and also massaged my legs and arms to help
keep my body relaxed so that the baby could keep making his way south.
But after over four hours of relentless pain I can't even describe, I had
essentially made zero progress. Our midwife thought the problem might be
that the involuntary muscle tightness in my lower back was keeping the baby
from descending. She suggested an epidural, which would allow that
tension to release. Knowing she is very pro natural childbirth, we knew
she wouldn't recommend this step lightly. We took her advice
and I got an epidural at 10:30 a.m.
Oh.my.word.
That epidural was the most amazing thing
that has ever happened in the history of the world.
I instantly became myself again.
It hit me that we would meet our son that day and I just started crying.
I got to experience all of the joy and excitement that I had been way too
zoned out to realize before. And even better, I made more progress in the
next 30 minutes than I had made in the first 8+ hours of labor.
My labor progressed pretty normally from
there. The only notable thing was that when my water broke there was
meconium in the amniotic fluid, which is just a formal way of saying that the
baby had pooped in utero. This isn't too uncommon, especially in babies
past their due date, and just meant that there would be a NICU team present at
birth that would whisk him away to another part of the room to clear all the fluid from his airways
to keep the meconium from getting into his lungs. I was disappointed that the baby wouldn’t be
placed directly on my chest like we had hoped, but we had kept open minds about
how everything would go and were just thankful that everyone was still healthy
thus far.
Our midwife telling us it was time to
start pushing was definitely the most surreal part of the whole
experience. I can’t describe it. It was time, we were ready, and the moment
we’d waited so so long for was about to happen.
We were about to meet our son!
Let me pause for a second to say that we
were expecting a 7.5 pound baby, maybe 8.
We didn't have any sonograms in the second half of our pregnancy so we
really had no idea about his size, but my belly had always measured exactly on
track and suggested a very average-size baby.
In hindsight, there were a few signs that he was big. In the last several weeks my belly was
extraordinarily hard all around; the baby was balled up and filling every
square inch of space I had. Also, he
moved lower into my pelvis pretty early on but was somehow still able to kick
me in the ribs :). Expecting a 7.5 pound
baby was one of the biggest blessings of our birth experience. If we knew he was as big as he was, I think I
would have had a lot of fear about his birth.
I also think it would have made for a much more high-stress environment
from our midwife and nurse.
Thankfully, the delivery was fairly
smooth. I think there was a moment when
our midwife realized he was big (or at least had a huge noggin); things got a
little tense and she gave me really firm directions about how I needed to work
harder to get him out. At one point I
heard the nurse whisper to her that “we may need to go in and get him” and
that’s when I found a whole new level of effort. Beckett was born just a few minutes later.
I didn’t really get a good glimpse of
him before the NICU team took him, and then the next couple of hours were a bit
of a blur to me. Things post delivery
didn’t go great for me (I’ll spare the details) and I quickly felt really
lifeless and totally out of it. I
remember Kolby talking really loud to Beckett as the NICU team was working on
him, and then I remember someone announcing that he weighed a whopping nine
pounds. Some time later they finally
brought Beckett over to me and laid him on my chest. (Note how small the hospital hat is on that 95+ percentile head!)
Kolby was there and we had the sweetest
time as a new family. We had a playlist
of hymns going during delivery but I hadn’t been able to hear them the whole
time. As Kolby and I had our heads
leaned together and were staring at our sweet little boy, Great is Thy Faithfulness came on and I could hear it as clear as
can be. I don’t mind that I didn’t get
to hold him right away or that I became too anemic to have hardly any memories
of his birth—that moment was everything I was wanting and so much more. It was what I had dreamed about for years.
Here are a few more pictures from his
birth day.
Our little fatty:
Proud dad (again notice the too-small hat, cracks me up!):
First picture as a new family:
Our sweet bundle of joy:
It was an amazing day that ended with us snuggling the most amazing little boy we have ever laid eyes on. We are blessed beyond measure to get to be his parents!
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Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness!Morning by morning new mercies I see;
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided—
Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!
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