Congrats, Kolby!

Kolby graduated a couple weeks ago with his Master of Fine Arts in Creative Writing.  His final residency was in Santa Fe, and Kevin & Roycee and I met up with him for 5 days to be there for the last part of it and for his graduation ceremony.  It was so great to meet his friends and professors and get a glimpse of what he's been up to these past two years.  

Here are some pictures from the trip.

We stayed in a beautiful house on the same street as all of the art galleries.
 Apparently they don't make people as short as they used to.
Part of Kolby's graduation requirements was a reading from his poetry manuscript.  He did great!
Kolby graduated alongside 11 other writers, whose occupations ranged from Wall Street Journal reporter to surgeon to engineer, etc.
Here are some other pictures from after the graduation ceremony:
 Kolby had two mentor teachers.  They are really sweet and really talented.
Kolby's parents and I had some down time while Kolby was in class, which we spent enjoying the beautiful town and great weather: 

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Because not everyone was able to travel to Santa Fe to witness and celebrate Kolby's graduation in person, I  put together a killer party for our whole family after we got home.  We got together at my parents' ranch for a big BBQ, and somehow we lucked out and the party fell on Texas' one-day reprieve from +100 degree temperatures.  I can honestly say that it seemed like everyone had a REALLY great time, and hopefully Kolby felt how proud we all are of him.  Success!

I decorated with pictures that Kolby had taken in Seattle or Santa Fe and ones I took during his graduation weekend.  I also printed out some of my favorite poems he's written.
 I set out a couple of books that Kolby has had poems published in, and I also put together a booklet of his poetry that I pulled from his graduate manuscript.  The booklets turned out really great and everyone got to take one home with them.
Guess who went on his first road trip to be at the party?  Remy unfortunately had a church event that day, so Brad brought Tucker all by himself.  Impressive!
My dad and Kolby's dad tag-teamed the BBQ.  They made the.best.food.ever.  Oh my gosh I wish I was eating it again right now.  It was SO good.  They made brisket, chicken, and sausage, and it was in the smoker for so many hours that the meat just fell apart it was so tender.  I could go on and on, but I'm seriously drooling just thinking about it so I'll leave it at that.

 Kolby wasn't super excited about this part, but we talked him into reading some of his poems for us since everyone missed his graduate reading in Santa Fe.  He was a good sport though, and it was much appreciated by all!
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 Congratulations, honey.  I'm so proud of you, inspired by you, and honored to be living life with a guy as amazing as you.:)
 All my love and support,

Summer Update

Wow, it’s been awhile!  Where to start?  First things first…

We have new neighbors!  Kolby’s sister Kassidy and her husband Derek leased a house just a couple blocks away from us.  This is exciting for a lot of reasons, but my favorite at the moment is that when we have each other over for dinner we can just walk since they’re only about 20 houses down the street.  Welcome to the neighborhood!

EVEN BIGGER EXCITING NEWS, Kolby's brother Kason and his wife Sarah are having a baby!  And, they found out last week that it's a GIRL!  So, we're expecting our very first niece in November and we are so excited!

In mid-June, SK (Summer Kolby) and I went on vacation with his family to Kiawah Island, South Carolina.  It was absolutely amazing.  We stayed in a big beautiful house that overlooked a pond with alligators, and the most peaceful beach I’ve ever been to was a 5 minute bike ride away.  A typical day included sleeping in, eating a big breakfast, taking a morning nap (everyone knows that’s the best kind of nap), lathering on sunscreen, biking to the secluded beach, reading a book in a beach lounger with the waves rolling over my feet, grabbing lunch, going back to the beach so Kolby and I could break our previous paddleball record, having a nice family dinner on the back patio, and watching the Mavericks win the NBA championship.  That’s basically my perfect idea of a vacation, and we enjoyed every second of it!
 Kiawah Island is a private golf island and it had a very southern, country club feel to it.  Picture a woman in the grocery store saying to her husband, with a very ritzy southern accent, “Hamilton, I believe you forgot the cherries for our old-fashioneds!”  Yes, that actually happened (an old-fashioned is apparently some type of cocktail).  So SK and I called each other Charles (don’t pronounce the “r”) and Mitzy, and had fun dining in restaurants where the dress code was always “Resort Casual,” whatever that means!
*Please excuse the lack of a big family picture.  We had a plan for one but then a certain baby nephew of mine decided to enter the world a few weeks early so I rushed home to be there.*

Then in mid-July we went to Cancun, Mexico with our friends Tyler & Erin for a long weekend getaway.  Last year the four of us spent a week exploring several National Parks in the southwest, which was a total blast but I voted this year for something that doesn’t involve hiking in any form or fashion.  So we went to the beach, and it was great to hang out with them (they live in Arkansas so we never get to see each other!) and relax and play games. 
 We stayed up late every night playing dominoes and around midnight we'd order a club sandwich from room service to share.  What is free 24-hour room service good for if not that?  Here's a quick pic of the club club: 
One other big thing that happened this summer was that our church moved into our own new building.  As I’ve mentioned before, we are very involved with a new church plant (“plant” meaning that a larger-well established church in the area started or “planted” a new, small church in a nearby city with very few churches).  We spent most of our first year using a vacant restaurant on Sundays, and then we spent a year renting space in a hotel.  We had been looking for a permanent location for quite awhile but the real estate in that particular area is not church-friendly and it was really difficult to find something that would work.  Finally we found a building owner who was interested in working with us and we built out a portion of a commercial property.  After a lot of work and anticipation, we celebrated our first Sunday in our new building on July 3.  It was a really exciting day, and we’re very excited for what God has in store for our church during this next phase.

Here are some pictures of the build-out process:
Helping build IKEA kitchen cabinets:
Our first Sunday in the new building (our pastor's wife talking about the journey of finding and completing the new building, and then Kolby reading scripture):

One downer thing that happened this summer is that Maya developed some type of bug allergy and now when she gets bit by anything she chews at the spot until the hair is gone and the skin raw.  Things escalated last weekend while we were out of town and what had started as a small bite on her tail turned into the grossest thing I have ever seen.  She really did a number on that thing.  Like the responsible pet-owners we are, we opted to dodge the $90 emergency vet fee and just bandage it up and buy her a cone to get her through until Monday.  If you're ever convinced you have a smart dog, put a protective cone on it and watch it try to turn a corner or fit through a doorway.  Maybe she was just milking it, but it was pathetic.  After a visit to the vet and an upgrade to a neck ring, she's on her way to recovery.  She'll also be one of the few animal survivors were a sudden flood to come upon us.

Other than that, we’ve just been enjoying the summer.  SK has had some down time and has tackled a few home improvement projects, and I finished a really busy period at work and have made the most of our vacation time.  Kolby graduates with his MFA in Creative Writing in a few weeks and his parents and I will head out to Santa Fe, New Mexico for a long weekend to meet up with him at his last residency and to be there for the ceremony. 

And in case anyone was just itching to see baby Tucker, I'll never disappoint.  As his shirt says, he's a total chick magnet!
I took this picture today when I stopped by to visit.  That happens a lot-- the visiting.  And the picture-taking too, I guess.  Everyone has "that aunt" who is always in your face with a camera whether you like it or not.  Yes, I am already "that aunt."  Get used to it, buddy!  

Tuckie Bug

For the false alarm that Remy had a few weeks ago, I made it to the hospital in 10 minutes flat.  I even beat her there.  For the real deal, though, it took me 11.5 hours.  Why?  I was 5 days into a 7 day vacation with Kolby's family in Kiawah Island, South Carolina.  I had slept in, covered myself with sunscreen, ridden a bicycle to the beach, and had just sat down in my beach lounger with my toes in the ocean and a good book in my hand when I got the call from Brad.  "Hey Emmy, just wanted to let you know that Remy and I are headed to Labor & Delivery."  Oh geez.

After a rather crazy day of figuring out how I could make it home and worrying I would miss the birth of my very first nephew, I made it on a flight around 6pm.  FYI, the automated teller at the American Airlines 1-800 number is now on my black list.  
AA:  "Please say reservations, flight information, reward travel, or more options." 
E:  "Reservations."
AA:  "I'm sorry, I couldn't understand you.  Please say reservations, flight information, reward travel, or more options."
E:  "Reservations."
AA:  "I'm sorry, I couldn't understand you.  Please say reservations, flight information, reward travel, or more options."
E:  "Reservations!!"
AA:  "I'm sorry, I couldn't understand you.  Please say reservations, flight information, reward travel, or more options."
E:  "Please tell me this is a joke."
AA:  "Transferring you to an agent."
[Note:  If I have a terrible speech impediment, please tell me.  You aren't doing me any favors by letting me go on like this. :)]

Unlucky for Remy but very lucky for me, she was still in labor by the time I made it to the hospital around 10pm.  Remy had invited me to be in the room for Tucker's birth (I think she really just wanted me for the pictures of the baby right after he was born, but I'll take what I can get!) so I had the privilege of  being there when he was born and it was the most amazing thing ever.  Wouldn't have missed it for the world!

Remy was incredible.  Brad was a rock star coach.  Tuck is one lucky kid.  :)

The very first picture of Tucker Bradley:
Proud new daddy:
 Getting all checked out by the nurse-- love this goofy pic.  He scored a 10 out of 10!
New family ready to head home:

My first picture with Tuckie Bug (that's the nickname that stuck for me... it just feels right!):
Uncle Kolby got to meet him when he made it home on Sunday:

Today is the first day since he was born that I didn't get to see him and I am having major withdrawal :)

Welcome to the family, Tucker.  We're so glad you're here safe and sound!  Also, you are the cutest thing I have ever seen.  

I'm an Aunt! :)


Bro, Remy & handsome baby Tucker are all healthy and happy!

More details and pics to follow...

Miscellaneous

My apologies for the lack of blogging lately.  I know you are all on the edge of your seat wondering what we've been up to.  Ha!  I actually really enjoy writing blog posts and working with pictures, but sometimes I just can't  find the energy to get on my laptop at home since I'm on a computer for 8 hours everyday at work.  But here's a shot at an update.

The big news around our house is that we got new toilets.  Yes, our life is really that boring.  But it was our first do-it-yourself project that went smoothly, so we're pretty happy about it.  Our old toilets were from the 1950s and used 3.5 gallons per flush.  The new ones use 1.6 gallons.  Just doing our part to save the planet.  My favorite quote from Kolby about the project:  "Say what you want about America, but 200 bucks sure buys you a heck of a lot of toilets."  It was so refreshing to go to the plumbing aisle at Home Depot and find that a perfectly good toilet costs $98.  That was after buying a new front door knob for $120.  Someone please explain how that is possible.  

We have officially launched the summer of home improvement projects.  Next on the list--- our office.  We're reorganizing, painting, and we ordered a 10' wide by 7' tall corner bookcase for Kolby.  He's finally getting his dream of having a library.  He already has all the books, but the bookcases we have now aren't big enough so we have boxes of books stored in closets.  Just ask anyone who helped us move--- I swear every other box weighed 50 pounds and had BOOKS written across the top.  I'm excited for how that room will look once we're finished!

I met an old friend last Saturday.  His name is Summer Kolby.  Summer Kolby has all of the wonderful attributes of Kolby, but with no stress at all plus an extra dose of helpfulness.  Summer Kolby also cooks a big breakfast for himself every morning, stays in his pajamas until lunch, does whatever he wants whenever he wants to do it, and goes to A LOT of Rangers games.  After working really hard during the school year, he deserves the break!  

Kolby's students graduated last Friday.  This is his first year to teach seniors, and it was really bittersweet.  I read several of the letters and cards that his students wrote to him, and it is just completely amazing the things they said.  He has had such an extraordinary impact on their lives.  I'm very proud :)

Backing up a little, we moved our annual gathering with my mom's side of the family from July 4th to Memorial Day this year because Remy is due on July 1 and my cousin is getting married on July 15th.  One family wasn't able to make it (we missed you, Dunns!), but we still had 20 people under 1 roof for 4 days.  As always, it was a blast.  Here is a peek at what a big family gathering at the ranch looks like.

We like being where the food is.  Hence, there are always several people gathered in the kitchen.  Sometimes we invite more extended family to join us for a meal or two, like my great aunt and uncle.
 We BBQ.

 We play games.  A lot of games.
 We fish, now that the tiny bass and catfish we stocked the pond with a year ago are big enough to make it worth it.
We play washers.  
What is "washers"?  It's a game much like horseshoes except instead of stakes, you bury two empty bean cans in the ground to make holes, and rather than throwing horseshoes you throw 1" washers (as in the things that go along with nuts and bolts), which are about the diameter of a coke can.

Back to what we do at these family gatherings.  We play with the new water toys on the pond.
 And finally, we play whilffleball.  Even the 40+ mph wind doesn't stop us.  Just wrap some duct tape around the plastic balls and learn to play the breaks.

Basically, there is a lot do do, a lot of fun people to do it with, and a lot of food.  What more do you need?  Also, there is never an agenda and we never go anywhere (there's nowhere to go) so no need to keep track of time or pack anything but play clothes.
      
 Here's a great example of why I love family gatherings at the ranch.  On Saturday night we all got sucked into an episode of Swamp People and stayed up really late waiting to see if the croc appropriately but not creatively named "Tree-Shaker" would be brought to justice.  We slept in on Sunday morning and my family was in charge of a pancake breakfast.  A belly full of blueberry pancakes prompted me to take a mid-morning nap on the couch.  When I woke up an hour later it was unusually quiet in the house and I stepped out on the back patio to find that most people were gathered down at the washers course.  Maybe it was the euphoria from actually getting the chance to take a nap, but it was just a really happy moment to look out and see everyone down there just having fun and carrying on a very long family tradition.

Changing gears, here is a baby update!  Alayne had her precious son, Collin, on May 13.  I took a half day off work to be at the hospital, and I'm really glad I was able to make it.  Alayne has been a best friend of mine for about 12 years, and it was important to me to be there if at all possible.  If nothing else, I want to be able to say at Collin's 5th birthday party or high school graduation or whatever else that I was there the day he was born, and then follow that up with some sappy statement about how time flies, how much he's grown up, or what an amazing young man he turned into.  Alayne and Collin are both doing really great; he's super cute and she is already an amazing mom.  :)

Remy isn't due until July 1, but the doctor thinks Tucker will be here within the next couple weeks.  I got a call from Remy a few weekends ago that started with, "Hey Ems, I have a favor to ask but feel free to say no." and then she proceeded to say that she's headed to the hospital because she was having contractions but that Brad was out of town and she could use some company.  "Oh, man I wish I could, Remy, but I just sat down to watch a rerun of Friends, and it's the one where Ross finally finds out that Chandler and Monica are dating, so..."  I had to laugh at her; I mean, who phrases a question like that under those circumstances?  I flew to the hospital and even beat her there.  Turns out, it was false labor like she had thought and everything (baby's heart rate, Remy's blood pressure, etc.) looked just fine.  It did land her on modified bed rest, though.  That means she's allowed to go to work but she has to sit the whole time, and when she's home she has to lay on the couch with her feet elevated.  She's doing great, and we're all just really ready to meet little Tuck!

Well, I think that about sums everything up around here.  We're going on vacation with Kolby's family soon and we can't wait!!   
 
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