Day 2 & Day 3: Zion National Park
Day 1: Las Vegas
We're Back
Great News!
Another One Bites the Dust
In other exciting news, we leave for our vacation pretty soon and we’re getting really excited. I’m taking off work for a full week, which will be my longest break (by far) since I started my job almost a year ago. I love my job, but I love vacation more! We can’t wait!!!
Ode to my Canon 40D
Here are some pictures that I (or in some cases, Kolby) took this weekend. They aren't anything special, just some pictures from around the house so we could get in some practice with the camera before our trip. Yes, most of them are of Maya. What did you expect? These are all straight out of the camera. Someday I hope to purchase Adobe Photoshop Lightroom and learn how to edit pictures. That'll be awhile though, it's expensive.

Below is a series of pictures Kolby took around the kitchen and of clutter on our kitchen table (sparkling water, almonds, poetry books, chips... the usual!).

Back to Maya
Take a guess at what that pile of fluff is.
Yep, it's dog hair. Maya was way past due for her spring appointment with the furminator.
And finally, a shout out to Maya's best friend (and aunt, I suppose), Muppet. 
May
Most importantly, it means that Kolby only teaches SAT classes on Monday nights. He talked to his boss several weeks ago about the overscheduling, and they reached an agreement that he’d only work one day a week starting this month. It is such a relief to get to spend tons of time together again. I missed him!
It also means warm weather is becoming the norm again! The temperature has been so nice lately and we’ve enjoyed eating dinner on our back patio every night. We try to think of meals that require the grill because it makes for a fun evening outside together.
Maya has been experiencing some major spring fever these past few weeks. All she wants to do is be in the backyard chasing rabbits, eyeing the birds, or checking out all that’s going on in our neighborhood this time of year. We recently celebrated her birthday, which was fun as always. We gave her a birthday of April 22, since that is the day we brought her home 3 years ago. The pound thought she was 1 or 2, so she’s probably 4 or 5 now. As usual, we met up with some friends at the dog park to celebrate. I think everyone had a great time!
Although this isn’t specific to May, baseball season is in full swing now. If you’re not aware, Kolby LOVES baseball and is a huge Rangers fan. It’s a passion that’s always been there but has really been ramping up in the past few years. He watches or listens to almost every game. And they play 6 games a week! We went to a game a couple weeks ago with my parents and our seats were 9 rows behind home plate. At that proximity, even I can enjoy watching baseball! We had a great time and the Rangers won.
Speaking of Kolby, we were thrown quite a curveball last week when we found out a job opening that he was very hopeful about suddenly closed out of nowhere. It was his dream job and we’re really disappointed that it didn’t work out, but I guess it never hurts to be reminded that we are not in control. It is back to square one on the job front, but we are trusting that God will provide—even if it is not in the way we imagined.
Back to Baylor

We had the family over to celebrate the other day and I made this glorious concoction. I wish I could blame the tacky writing on the uneven surface of the Rice Krispie treats. I don’t think I’ll be getting any calls to decorate cakes anytime soon (can you even tell those are bear paws?).
Catching Up
I’ll start with the here and now and then work backwards. This post is going to be long--- consider yourself warned!
Kolby has been working like a maniac these days. Lately he often works 50-60 hours a week between substitute teaching during the day and teaching SAT classes on nights and weekends, and then fits in at least 20 hours of grad school work wherever he can. We only see each other as we get ready for work and as we get ready for bed, and on Friday evenings when the SAT place is closed. We are definitely not OK with this change from relaxing and spending time together all the time like we are used to, but it’s only temporary so we’re making it work.
In other news, Kolby and I have a couple of exciting things on the horizon.
We have been asked by the pastor at our church to lead a Life Group, which is a Bible study that we’ll host at our house every-other Tuesday evening. We already have some of our friends at church on board, and we’re looking forward to meeting many new friends as we go along. There are four groups starting up and it’s a new church, so these are the first Life Groups and we’re excited to be involved. We’ve decided that our group will look at short excerpts from some of C.S. Lewis’s writings to lead into discussions about different matters of faith that people wrestle with. We’ll switch to something different after a couple of months. It starts next week, so we’ve got to get the house ready! The inside is fine, but our spring cleaning/landscaping project from March left quite a mess under our carport that we haven’t had time to clean up. This is weekend project #1.
Our other exciting news is that we’ve booked a summer vacation! We’ll be heading to the great American Southwest to hit up some National Parks with our friends Tyler and Erin. It’s Kolby’s dream vacation and happens to fall on his 25th birthday so he’ll be one happy camper. We’ll fly into Vegas, spend the night there gambling away our life savings (or more likely limiting ourselves to $10 each), and then move on to Utah and Arizona. We are going to spend a couple days at Zion National Park, then Bryce Canyon National Park followed by Vermillion Cliffs (Coyote Buttes), Antelope Canyon and the north rim of the Grand Canyon. Plus a few other stops along the way, like Horseshoe Bend and Lake Powell. We’ve never been to any of these places so we’re pretty excited. It’ll be a lot of hiking, so I’ll need to get into shape at some point!
I’m excited about seeing the sights and taking some cool pictures, but I’m also really excited that we’ll get to spend a week traveling with some great friends of ours. It’s just a good time in our lives to take a trip like this. June can’t come soon enough!
Speaking of 25th birthdays, I realized last week that I’m 24 and not 23 like I had been thinking. I was given some paperwork at the doctor’s office and it had my age listed as 24 on the top. I thought, “that’s weird” and proceeded to do the math only to discover that I am, in fact, 24 years old. So now all of the sudden I’m hit with the fact that I turn 25 this summer. Who knew?
This past weekend we traveled to Wimberley to spend some time with Kolby’s family to celebrate some birthdays and hang out at AlmostA Ranch. That’s the new official name of Kolby's parents' place down there. Roycee’s dad came up with the name and I think it is so clever! It’s a play on the fact that it is almost a ranch, since it has a ranch feel but doesn’t technically function as one. Clever, clever.
We had a wonderful time playing golf (boys), hitting up the San Marcos outlet mall (girls), grilling fajitas, pitching washers and sitting around a campfire. Kolby and I both got sunburned, but that’s nothing new for us this time of year when the sun has been so foreign for so long! Kolby’s sister is getting married in September so it was fun to catch up on all the latest details. Here are some pictures of the weekend, and the ranch.
The cabin:


The casita:


For Easter weekend we met up with Russell and my parents down at their ranch. We hung out, played games, grilled steaks and worked on some projects around the new pond. We’re picking up 3,000 tiny fish to stock the pond in a few weeks, so we had to create some “cover” for them since the pond was just dug and doesn’t have anywhere for the fish to hide and grow. [Largemouth bass and catfish, for those family members who are reading this and wondering what my dad decided to go with.] We picked up some old tires that were being thrown out and assembled 5 fish playgrounds made of 5-6 big tires each. It was a lot of work but we love getting away for the weekend and are happy to do anything new and different for awhile. It keeps life interesting.

As we were getting ready to head home that Sunday, a super sweet 1-year-old Chesapeake Bay Retriever showed up and long story short--- we discovered she had been abandoned by the side of the road the previous day so we decided to bring her with us and find her a good home. Then a roller coaster of emotions ensued as we fell in love with her but knew it wasn’t a smart decision to add another dog to our family right now. We ended up finding a great home for her and Kolby dropped her off this past Friday. I cried. The good news is she is at a house that is 10 miles away from my parents’ ranch and the owner said he’d let us pick her up for a play date when we’re down there periodically. Maya was happy to hear that because those two were smitten with each other.
Lesson learned from that experience: Unless you’re able to keep the super sweet abandoned dog that found her way to you, maybe don’t allow her to sleep in your bedroom, sit in your lap for hours, become best friends with your dog or completely steal your heart. Hindsight is always 20/20, right?
I can’t think of much else that’s going on, so I guess that about sums everything up! Until next time...
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Maya and I are VERY happy to have him home again. I wouldn't say I'm totally cut out for being home alone for extended periods of time. Kolby made me promise that I wouldn't just eat cereal for dinner every single night. So one night I took a break from the Frosted Mini Wheats and made myself cinnamon toast and chocolate milk. Not sure that's what he had in mind.As much as I missed him, I'm so glad he got to go spend time with his writer friends and I love how much he enjoys grad school!
Uncertainty
About this time last year, our lives were full to the brim with uncertainty. Kolby had applied to 4 graduate programs (all with VERY low acceptance rates, as low as 3%) and I had applied to 12 or so jobs (prospects were looking slim on that front as well). Neither of us had heard anything yet. The schools Kolby applied to and the jobs I applied for weren't in the same states. We didn't have a plan in the event that Kolby got accepted to and chose Univ. of Missouri or Vanderbilt and I was offered a job in D.C. or Dallas. We just both shot for the moon and prayed that God would take care of us just as He always has.
There was a lot of anxious waiting. Months, in fact. Then Kolby got an acceptance letter from Seattle Pacific, which was the program he'd had his eye on for several years. It follows a low-residency model, which meant we could live anywhere. I interviewed for a great job in **** shortly after he chose the SPU program. My patience was tested as more than 6 weeks passed without hearing anything. Then I heard something, and it was VERY good news.
We now live a fun, simple life that could not be more perfect for us. We have a small, beautiful home that is full of love, laughs, and tumbleweeds of dog hair. Kolby spends his days writing poetry and enriching the minds (and lives) of high school students. I spend my (week)days at a job that I love. We live a stone's throw away from both of our parents, my brother and SIL, and a handful of great friends. We attend a wonderful church where we feel at home. We're happy. We're grateful. Our life together fell into place better than I could ever have imagined.
Embracing the uncertainty of last year went against every fiber of my being. Everyone told us that "things will all work out" and I believed them, but I couldn't logically see how they were right. Obviously logic can't always be trusted. God took care of us once again.
We are now entering a new phase of (milder) uncertainty, with Kolby seeking full-time employment to couple with continuing his grad program, and some other decisions here and there. Seems like life will always carry a level of uncertainty. I know things will not always work out the way we want them to, but so far we have no reason to fear the unknown!
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The Good, The Bad and the Ugly
Today I was at work, mourning the loss of the $585 and thinking about all the things that we could have used that money for instead. Then I realized that me getting really bent out of shape about having to spend money on something that is out of our control really goes against our life philosophy of not putting much value in money or the material things that can be bought with it. We're really careful with how we spend our money, mostly because we don't want to waste it on things that aren't important to us, but sometimes I get so caught up in it that frugality almost becomes an object to me. Sometimes things come up that you have no choice but to spend money on, and I finally came to the realization that there's no reason to get grumpy about it. It's probably a good perspective for me to have--- seems like homeownership is full of costly surprises!
***Complete side note: I am watching TV as I write this and a KFC commercial just came on that advertised chicken fried steak, mashed potatoes with gravy, fresh cole slaw and a biscuit for $1.99. I don't even want to know how that is possible.











