May

It’s finally May, which means a lot of fun things around here.

Most importantly, it means that Kolby only teaches SAT classes on Monday nights. He talked to his boss several weeks ago about the overscheduling, and they reached an agreement that he’d only work one day a week starting this month. It is such a relief to get to spend tons of time together again. I missed him!

It also means warm weather is becoming the norm again! The temperature has been so nice lately and we’ve enjoyed eating dinner on our back patio every night. We try to think of meals that require the grill because it makes for a fun evening outside together.

Maya has been experiencing some major spring fever these past few weeks. All she wants to do is be in the backyard chasing rabbits, eyeing the birds, or checking out all that’s going on in our neighborhood this time of year. We recently celebrated her birthday, which was fun as always. We gave her a birthday of April 22, since that is the day we brought her home 3 years ago. The pound thought she was 1 or 2, so she’s probably 4 or 5 now. As usual, we met up with some friends at the dog park to celebrate. I think everyone had a great time!

Although this isn’t specific to May, baseball season is in full swing now. If you’re not aware, Kolby LOVES baseball and is a huge Rangers fan. It’s a passion that’s always been there but has really been ramping up in the past few years. He watches or listens to almost every game. And they play 6 games a week! We went to a game a couple weeks ago with my parents and our seats were 9 rows behind home plate. At that proximity, even I can enjoy watching baseball! We had a great time and the Rangers won.
Speaking of Kolby, we were thrown quite a curveball last week when we found out a job opening that he was very hopeful about suddenly closed out of nowhere. It was his dream job and we’re really disappointed that it didn’t work out, but I guess it never hurts to be reminded that we are not in control. It is back to square one on the job front, but we are trusting that God will provide—even if it is not in the way we imagined.

Our summer vacation is now less than a month away and we’re getting really excited about it! I planned on asking for an SLR camera for my birthday/Christmas from my parents this year, and I somehow talked them into letting me get it early so I could use it on our trip. I wanted a Canon 40D, which is a really nice but also really expensive camera, so we turned to eBay and I found one that is a few years old but was in really good shape. It’s now in the mail to me and I can’t wait for it to get here! I guess I’ll have to practice by taking pictures of Maya… I’m sure she’ll be thrilled :)

Back to Baylor

Big news on the family front--- my parents are headed back to Baylor!

This is a really exciting move for my parents. They’ll get to head back to their alma mater and embark on a fun new phase in life. They have been talking for a long time about how they’d love to get back to Baylor at some point, but this was the first time that the timing worked out on Baylor’s end AND my parent’s end.
It’s a perfect position for my dad and it’s so great that it’s at Baylor (my parents dated at Baylor, got engaged at Baylor, got married at the chapel on Baylor’s campus, and my dad was a professor at Baylor for the first couple of years they were married). Oh--- this will be meaningless to anyone who didn’t go to Baylor, but to those who did--- his office will be in Pat Neff Hall! I think that’s the coolest part about the job. Pat Neff is the trademark building at Baylor; it’s in the center of campus and has the bell tower that lights up green when Baylor wins a sports game.

Russell still has two more years at Baylor, but I think he’s probably less worried about running in to mom & dad on campus and more excited about the free meals they’ll provide!

 We had the family over to celebrate the other day and I made this glorious concoction. I wish I could blame the tacky writing on the uneven surface of the Rice Krispie treats. I don’t think I’ll be getting any calls to decorate cakes anytime soon (can you even tell those are bear paws?).

Congratulations, Dad! I’m proud of you!

Catching Up

Life has been crazy around here lately! So much for the simple life we had become so accustomed to… hopefully it will return soon!

A lot has happened lately, though rest assured it won’t be exciting to anyone. To our family and friends who read our blog to keep up with us and to know what’s going on in our lives—I hope it serves that purpose even though we rarely have anything interesting to report. I’m sorry that it’s not more fun to read about!

I’ll start with the here and now and then work backwards. This post is going to be long--- consider yourself warned!

Kolby has been working like a maniac these days. Lately he often works 50-60 hours a week between substitute teaching during the day and teaching SAT classes on nights and weekends, and then fits in at least 20 hours of grad school work wherever he can. We only see each other as we get ready for work and as we get ready for bed, and on Friday evenings when the SAT place is closed. We are definitely not OK with this change from relaxing and spending time together all the time like we are used to, but it’s only temporary so we’re making it work.

Why is he working so much? It is hiring season for the local high schools, so he is not turning down any sub opportunities because he wants to have a presence at these schools and follow through with some connections so he can hopefully get hired for a full-time teaching position next year. He’s got a great shot at things working out. Then it appears that he is now the only verbal teacher at the SAT place, so they pack his schedule with workshops, classes, and 1-on-1 tutoring sessions. They are working to hire someone new, but until that happens he just doesn’t feel comfortable saying “no” when he knows the students need him. So he is quite the busy bee, but hopefully things will slow down for him soon.

As for me, things are busy as well. I’m not allowed to write/talk about too many details of work in a public forum like this blog (information security reasons, apparently), but for the record-- I am still loving my job. I’ve been given a lot of responsibilities, more than I expected to have after only 9 months. It’s a very good thing, and I really like the diversity of work. Some of the things I work on are very difficult, but I just take it a day at a time and I’ve been able to handle things so far. Economic research is a good fit for me and I enjoy the people I work with. I am constantly aware of what a great opportunity this job is, and I definitely don’t take it for granted even when I occasionally feel overwhelmed with how hard it is!

In other news, Kolby and I have a couple of exciting things on the horizon.

We have been asked by the pastor at our church to lead a Life Group, which is a Bible study that we’ll host at our house every-other Tuesday evening. We already have some of our friends at church on board, and we’re looking forward to meeting many new friends as we go along. There are four groups starting up and it’s a new church, so these are the first Life Groups and we’re excited to be involved. We’ve decided that our group will look at short excerpts from some of C.S. Lewis’s writings to lead into discussions about different matters of faith that people wrestle with. We’ll switch to something different after a couple of months. It starts next week, so we’ve got to get the house ready! The inside is fine, but our spring cleaning/landscaping project from March left quite a mess under our carport that we haven’t had time to clean up. This is weekend project #1.
Our other exciting news is that we’ve booked a summer vacation! We’ll be heading to the great American Southwest to hit up some National Parks with our friends Tyler and Erin. It’s Kolby’s dream vacation and happens to fall on his 25th birthday so he’ll be one happy camper. We’ll fly into Vegas, spend the night there gambling away our life savings (or more likely limiting ourselves to $10 each), and then move on to Utah and Arizona. We are going to spend a couple days at Zion National Park, then Bryce Canyon National Park followed by Vermillion Cliffs (Coyote Buttes), Antelope Canyon and the north rim of the Grand Canyon. Plus a few other stops along the way, like Horseshoe Bend and Lake Powell. We’ve never been to any of these places so we’re pretty excited. It’ll be a lot of hiking, so I’ll need to get into shape at some point!

I’m excited about seeing the sights and taking some cool pictures, but I’m also really excited that we’ll get to spend a week traveling with some great friends of ours. It’s just a good time in our lives to take a trip like this. June can’t come soon enough!

Speaking of 25th birthdays, I realized last week that I’m 24 and not 23 like I had been thinking. I was given some paperwork at the doctor’s office and it had my age listed as 24 on the top. I thought, “that’s weird” and proceeded to do the math only to discover that I am, in fact, 24 years old. So now all of the sudden I’m hit with the fact that I turn 25 this summer. Who knew?

This past weekend we traveled to Wimberley to spend some time with Kolby’s family to celebrate some birthdays and hang out at AlmostA Ranch. That’s the new official name of Kolby's parents' place down there. Roycee’s dad came up with the name and I think it is so clever! It’s a play on the fact that it is almost a ranch, since it has a ranch feel but doesn’t technically function as one. Clever, clever.

We had a wonderful time playing golf (boys), hitting up the San Marcos outlet mall (girls), grilling fajitas, pitching washers and sitting around a campfire. Kolby and I both got sunburned, but that’s nothing new for us this time of year when the sun has been so foreign for so long! Kolby’s sister is getting married in September so it was fun to catch up on all the latest details. Here are some pictures of the weekend, and the ranch. The cabin:

The casita:

For Easter weekend we met up with Russell and my parents down at their ranch. We hung out, played games, grilled steaks and worked on some projects around the new pond. We’re picking up 3,000 tiny fish to stock the pond in a few weeks, so we had to create some “cover” for them since the pond was just dug and doesn’t have anywhere for the fish to hide and grow. [Largemouth bass and catfish, for those family members who are reading this and wondering what my dad decided to go with.] We picked up some old tires that were being thrown out and assembled 5 fish playgrounds made of 5-6 big tires each. It was a lot of work but we love getting away for the weekend and are happy to do anything new and different for awhile. It keeps life interesting.

As we were getting ready to head home that Sunday, a super sweet 1-year-old Chesapeake Bay Retriever showed up and long story short--- we discovered she had been abandoned by the side of the road the previous day so we decided to bring her with us and find her a good home. Then a roller coaster of emotions ensued as we fell in love with her but knew it wasn’t a smart decision to add another dog to our family right now. We ended up finding a great home for her and Kolby dropped her off this past Friday. I cried. The good news is she is at a house that is 10 miles away from my parents’ ranch and the owner said he’d let us pick her up for a play date when we’re down there periodically. Maya was happy to hear that because those two were smitten with each other.

Lesson learned from that experience: Unless you’re able to keep the super sweet abandoned dog that found her way to you, maybe don’t allow her to sleep in your bedroom, sit in your lap for hours, become best friends with your dog or completely steal your heart. Hindsight is always 20/20, right?

I can’t think of much else that’s going on, so I guess that about sums everything up! Until next time...

Whidbey Island, WA

Kolby has arrived safely home after spending nearly two weeks at Whidbey Island, just a hop skip and a jump from Seattle, WA. It was for the winter residency for his grad program, and he had a wonderful time and sent me pictures all throughout his trip to prove it.

Maya and I are VERY happy to have him home again. I wouldn't say I'm totally cut out for being home alone for extended periods of time. Kolby made me promise that I wouldn't just eat cereal for dinner every single night. So one night I took a break from the Frosted Mini Wheats and made myself cinnamon toast and chocolate milk. Not sure that's what he had in mind.

As much as I missed him, I'm so glad he got to go spend time with his writer friends and I love how much he enjoys grad school!

Uncertainty

About this time last year, our lives were full to the brim with uncertainty. Kolby had applied to 4 graduate programs (all with VERY low acceptance rates, as low as 3%) and I had applied to 12 or so jobs (prospects were looking slim on that front as well). Neither of us had heard anything yet. The schools Kolby applied to and the jobs I applied for weren't in the same states. We didn't have a plan in the event that Kolby got accepted to and chose Univ. of Missouri or Vanderbilt and I was offered a job in D.C. or Dallas. We just both shot for the moon and prayed that God would take care of us just as He always has.

There was a lot of anxious waiting. Months, in fact. Then Kolby got an acceptance letter from Seattle Pacific, which was the program he'd had his eye on for several years. It follows a low-residency model, which meant we could live anywhere. I interviewed for a great job in **** shortly after he chose the SPU program. My patience was tested as more than 6 weeks passed without hearing anything. Then I heard something, and it was VERY good news.

We now live a fun, simple life that could not be more perfect for us. We have a small, beautiful home that is full of love, laughs, and tumbleweeds of dog hair. Kolby spends his days writing poetry and enriching the minds (and lives) of high school students. I spend my (week)days at a job that I love. We live a stone's throw away from both of our parents, my brother and SIL, and a handful of great friends. We attend a wonderful church where we feel at home. We're happy. We're grateful. Our life together fell into place better than I could ever have imagined.

Embracing the uncertainty of last year went against every fiber of my being. Everyone told us that "things will all work out" and I believed them, but I couldn't logically see how they were right. Obviously logic can't always be trusted. God took care of us once again.

We are now entering a new phase of (milder) uncertainty, with Kolby seeking full-time employment to couple with continuing his grad program, and some other decisions here and there. Seems like life will always carry a level of uncertainty. I know things will not always work out the way we want them to, but so far we have no reason to fear the unknown!

Food

I’m not exactly a health nut, to say the least.
But, I’m trying to be a little more conscious of what I eat. Kolby and I both are. We decided a good first step would be to limit our consumption of processed foods. We’ll see how this goes!

We’ve switched from our usual grocery store to Sprouts Farmers Market--- they have a larger selection of fresh produce and meats, plus they sell dry goods (beans, oats, rice, etc.) by the pound. Everything is quite a bit cheaper, mostly because the produce is local and in season and the dry foods aren’t processed or packaged. We recently bought some new canisters that help us store the foods we buy at Sprouts, and they help keep our pantry clean and organized.
For breakfast, I've had to say goodbye to some personal favorites: Pops, Chex, Frosted Flakes, Honey Comb, Kix, Rice Krispies, and Special K. We now stick to cereals made with whole grain and little added sugar. Oh how I miss my Pops :)!

We cook dinner together every weeknight and we use fresh meat/chicken, fresh veggies, and sometimes either wheat pasta or whole grain rice. Kolby is in charge of dinner most of the time, and he’s gotten really good at coming up with some good healthy concoctions.
Lunch is a tough meal to ditch the processed foods. Mostly because I am head-over-heels in love with my Baked Cheetos and BBQ Baked Lays. Kolby packs my lunch most mornings, and I usually get a PB&H sandwich (wheat bread, natural peanut butter, local honey), some type of baked chips, and fruit. I feel like that’s a fairly healthy lunch, and I just can’t think of anything better. I'm always open to new lunch ideas if you have any! Because although natural peanut butter is really healthy, it is very high in fat. And I eat a lot of peanut butter.
A lot.
So, that's our first step towards healthier eating. We still order whatever we want when we eat out on the weekends, though. Everything in moderation, right? :) Whether it's going out to eat Mexican food and inhaling chips & queso to my heart’s content, inviting friends over and ordering pizza, drinking coke, or going to Rudy’s BBQ and eating 4 slices of that heavenly white bread along with my brisket... it keeps me going!

The Good, The Bad and the Ugly

The good.
Our house has had a tiny water leak since before we bought it, but we were told by a plumber that it was too small to detect so we'd have to just wait until it got worse. The flooded flowerbed/yard allowed us to figure out where the leak was and get it fixed, so we no longer have a water leak!

The bad.
After a lot of digging around and futilely replacing spigots and valves, the plumber determined the leak was must be in the main waterline. It's a copper pipe and apparently the leak was a result of a bad soldering job. The area was such a mucky mess that it took the plumbers all day to replace the leaky section and solder the new pipe, racking up a $585 bill.

The ugly.Our yard may never recover!

Today I was at work, mourning the loss of the $585 and thinking about all the things that we could have used that money for instead. Then I realized that me getting really bent out of shape about having to spend money on something that is out of our control really goes against our life philosophy of not putting much value in money or the material things that can be bought with it. We're really careful with how we spend our money, mostly because we don't want to waste it on things that aren't important to us, but sometimes I get so caught up in it that frugality almost becomes an object to me. Sometimes things come up that you have no choice but to spend money on, and I finally came to the realization that there's no reason to get grumpy about it. It's probably a good perspective for me to have--- seems like homeownership is full of costly surprises!


***Complete side note: I am watching TV as I write this and a KFC commercial just came on that advertised chicken fried steak, mashed potatoes with gravy, fresh cole slaw and a biscuit for $1.99. I don't even want to know how that is possible.

And the Winner Is...

...a busted waterline underground.

A plumber is coming out tomorrow to see what he can do (and how much it will cost). Bummer!

But, I'm not too concerned about it because Kolby only works for one hour tonight and he made taco ring for dinner! Doesn't get much better than that!


Spring Planting

We took advantage of the beautiful spring weekend to do some landscaping around our yard. Our house had quite a bit of landscaping already, but there wasn't any color at all so we tried to fill in some places and plant some things that will bloom.

Here is the before and after of one side of the front flower bed.
Before:

After: The green hedge bush in the middle is from the backyard; hopefully it will survive the transplant! We planted one new bush and we planted several perennials (columbine, lenten rose) behind the monkey grass that will bloom later this spring.

Monkey grass is a personal favorite of hers.

Here is a before shot of the flower bed at the back of our house. We moved the two living bushes to the beds in the front and pulled out the dead stuff. We planted three double knock-out rose bushes in that area-- two red and one pink.

One of our new rosebushes: We have a row of crape myrtles along our side fence in the backyard and we wanted to plant some colorful shrubs in the space in between. We went with azaleas and camellias. The bushes are small now, but they should grow to be 4' wide by 5' tall.
Camellias bloom in the winter, and here's a picture of the last flower that remains.

The azaleas bloom spring, summer and fall, and here's a picture of the first bloom that has appeared.
It was a lot of work to prepare the beds, till the soil, dig the holes, and plant everything--- probably a lot more work than it looks like it would be judging from these pictures. Everything looks really good, though, and we're crossing our fingers that we can keep everything alive! We're looking forward to a few years from now when the things that we've planted have grown and filled out.

Unfortunately, we ran into some trouble when we went to work on the flowerbed on the left side of the front of our house. We had noticed that area hadn't been draining well but as we started stepping in and raking that side, it became clear that we had a bit of a water problem. The flowerbed is the consistency of mulch soup and there is an expansive puddle in the grass.

There are a few things that could be responsible. It could be a clogged gutter that caused too much of the recent rains to dump on that spot, a leak/brake in the sprinkler system, or a busted waterline underground. Hopefully it's not the latter. We peeked into the crawl space and there isn't any water under the house, thank goodness. Kolby is going to check things out tomorrow and probably call out a sprinkler repairman or plumber. If anyone has any ideas of what may be going on here... we're always open to the idea of not having to pay someone to come out and fix something!

So that's our weekend in a nutshell. Kolby and I have been working opposite schedules lately-- he's been teaching SAT classes from 4-9ish so we only see each other for 1-2 waking hours on any given day-- so it was really nice to spend some time doing something together!

"Are you our sub?"

Here's a glimpse of a typical day of substitute teaching for Kolby.

"Are you our sub?"

"How tall are you?"

"How old are you?"

"21?"

"Do you play basketball?"

"6'5"?"

"Are you married?"

"Is Ms. Schmidt sick?"

"Are you still in college?"

"What are we doing today?"

"What's your first name?"

"36?"

"Is it Kobe like Kobe Bryant?"

"Is your wife hot?"

"Are you on Facebook?"

"6'7"?"

"What do we do when we're finished?"

"How hot on a scale of 1-10?"

"Do you have kids?"

"Can I get a drink of water?"

"45?"

"Do you have a picture of her?"

"How much do you get paid?"

"Do you want kids?"

"27?"

"Can you help me?"

"How much longer til lunch?"

"Do you want to be a real teacher?"

Snow Day

I'm sure everyone heard about the record-setting snowfall we had on Thursday. We got more than 12" at our house. It was nuts. Here are a few pictures.

This was the front of our house. The branches to our magnolia tree that are usually 6' off the ground were resting on the lawn. The weight of all the snow took a toll on all of the trees.Our street. The trees in our backyard. I got to work from home on Friday and all of the schools were closed so Kolby was at home, too. The snow was beautiful while it lasted and it was great to have a surprise snow day!

Reformed

This post is all about Maya, so it won’t be interesting to many of you. But although she weighs only 33 pounds, she’s a big part of our family and thus deserves some face time here on our family blog!

Maya has come such a long way. When we adopted her, she was a 1-3 year old stray dog who had never had a home. She was also VERY, VERY sick and nearly died just days after we picked her up; in fact, the emergency vet told us that if we hadn’t brought her in the morning that we did, she wouldn’t have made it through the day. I’ll spare you the graphic details of her condition and surgery. After several weeks of recovery, Maya transformed into the happiest, healthiest, and most well-mannered dog on the face of the planet (biased? nah.)

We always say that the reason she is so sweet and obedient is because she’s grateful. Or just happy to be alive. I’m OK with either.

The list of Maya’s positive attributes is long: she doesn’t bark, whine, lick, jump, beg, smell, scratch, or violate personal space…. and she loves all people and all dogs and has no health issues whatsoever. HOWEVER, she’s always had one awful flaw--- she runs away. Most of that is her husky nature, but a lot of it comes from the fact that she was a stray for so long. If a door is left open and she sneaks out of the house, she runs away and doesn’t come back. We’ve lost her multiple times, and twice we’ve lost her overnight. One of the hardest parts of searching for her is that we’ll sometimes spot her and she just looks like a stray again. She doesn’t respond to her name and she just paces around the streets like she doesn’t belong anywhere. It is heartbreaking. She eventually gets tired or thirsty, and she approaches someone in their yard who then gets our number off her tag and gives us a call.

All this to say, I am so very happy to report that Maya has finally quit running away! We’ve always said that time is all that she needs to break this awful habit, and I think we were right. We’ve trained her that she is no allowed to go out either door in our house without sitting first and then being invited out. It’s been two solid years of reinforcing this routine, and she’s now mastered it. She knows that she can’t just go out an open door, even if it blows open right in front of her. This has happened several times at our new house and we’ve walked in the room to find Maya sitting in front of a wide open door waiting for permission to go out. Even more impressive than that, our driveway gate has blown open several times and Maya has either stayed in the backyard on her own or has wandered into a neighbor’s yard but responded to her name and came right home when we called her. Just yesterday, Kolby was inside doing schoolwork and Maya was in the backyard when the gate blew open again. Maya apparently went next door and started playing with our neighbor and her two young children in their backyard. The neighbor simply called her name and Maya followed her back into our yard. Isn’t that the most normal dog thing ever? Get out, go play next door where the action is, willingly come home when you’re called. This is so huge for us! Maya is finally a “normal” dog who knows where she belongs and doesn’t feel compelled to dash away at the speed of light as soon as an opportunity presents itself. She has a sense of home now, which is very counter-intuitive for huskies.

We’re very proud of her and VERY relieved that the days of chasing a runaway dog are hopefully behind us (fingers crossed!).

January

I once made a commitment to update this blog at least once a month. So, despite the fact that there is NOTHING of interest going on with us... I shall come up with something nonetheless. I can't promise you'll find it interesting.

The past month has come with several additions for us. First, we added a new car to the family. Kolby bought a used Toyota Corrolla several weeks ago:

We just had one car (my Camry) when we were in Waco, but my parents let us borrow Russell's old Hyundai for the past several months since we needed a second car but wanted some more time to save up for one (thanks again, Mom & Dad!). The Hyundai wasn't keen on producing heat in cold weather, so it worked out well that we were able to get Kolby his own car after only a few days of frigidly cold morning commutes.

We also added some new patio furniture to our back deck. We bought it used off Craig's List and I had to paint it black, which turned into a much more involved and frustrating process than I had anticipated. That seems to be true for most of the work that we've done in or around our house. I can't even remember doing a project without at some point saying, "OK, so next time we'll know not to....". We saved a couple hundred dollars by buying this set used as opposed to new, but I learned that saving money is never worth it if it involves spray painting thin metal patio furniture! It turned out OK and we look forward to using it as soon as it warms up a bit.

On December 30, our extended family had an 8lb 2oz addition to the brood! My cousin Trish had her third precious little blonde baby. Her name is Laura, and I got to hold her for 3 hours and would have taken her home with me if she didn't have that dang hospital security bracelet on. I don't have any pictures of her, but this is as good of an excuse as any to post this precious shot of Kolby and Jackson, who became a big brother just a few days after this picture was taken. Check out Trish's blog to see pictures of sweet Laura. And finally, Christmas brought some wonderful additions to our bedroom decor. I got some awesome curtains from Santa (who shopped at Pier 1, smart guy!) and they made our whole bedroom come together. Check out the difference that 1 day of decorating can make.

Before: After:
Here's what the curtains look like up close:
It makes the room night-and-day better. The pictures make the wall color look tan, but they are actually what I would call "baby poop brown" and the curtains help tie in the color and it now looks really pretty.


Other than the new additions, not much else is going on here. Kolby has been working a lot of evenings and weekends teaching SAT classes the past 2 weeks. I'm not sure what I do while he's gone. Last weekend I went to Oklahoma with my three best friends to visit our other best friend that lives there. We had such a great time together, and we got to celebrate with Jessica and her husband over the news that they are expecting a baby!!!


I'll wrap this up with a link to the website my mom set up to document the progress of their ranch. The place is completely finished now and my mom just put up a bunch of new pictures. We actually drove down there at midnight on Sunday because it was a clear night and Kolby's obsession with looking at planets and such with my dad's telescope continues to be alive and well.


Kolby just got home and we have our NBC date night on Thursdays, so I'm off to watch some darn good TV :)

 
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