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Beckett's Baptism

We had Beckett baptized on April 21.  Our church baptizes infants, as well as believers.  Infant baptism is obviously not a part of our church heritage (growing up Baptist and all), so we talked to our pastor and read several articles and book excerpts about it and ultimately decided that while we respect both traditions, we want to have Beckett baptized, following in the tradition of this church that is such a big part of our lives right now.

As a Christian sacrament alongside the Lord’s Supper, baptism is “an earthly sign accompanied by a divine promise.”  Sacraments celebrate God’s specific action for us, that in every moment of our lives it is God who is relentlessly pursuing us no matter where we may be.  Infant baptism is not a substitute for a child’s eventual individual expression of faith in God and decision to turn from sin and put their trust in Jesus Christ.  But by baptizing Beckett, we are affirming that even before Beckett has any idea about Jesus or His love for him, Jesus is already at work in his life.
Beckett with his Godparents, Brad and Kassidy:


















Our families and a few friends were there too and we had a little reception afterward to celebrate together.

I made my first cake for my baby:
Beckett with his grandparents:
Some pictures I finally got around to taking today of Beckett in his precious outfit:
 Beckett's baptism was a wonderful day of celebration!

Samuel's Baptism

Samuel was baptized on April 12. [My post about Beckett's baptism has a bit about why we baptize our children.]  It was one of my very favorite days of all time.  We had a lot of friends and family there to celebrate with us, and also Kolby preached that morning.  It was just a wonderful day. Here are a few pictures...
Samuel's godparents are our dear friends from church, Chip & Sherry. 
 Sealed by the Holy Spirit in baptism and marked as Christ’s own for ever. Amen!
We had a lunch reception after church and had more than 30 people at our house, and a LOT of young kids.  Thankfully the weather was absolutely beautiful so we ate outside.

I reused picture frames from Beckett's baptism reception, and as I was replacing the pictures I had to laugh--I think I could have just left in the other pictures and no one would have really noticed!
We catered Blue Mesa and it was divine.  And Kolby and I didn't have to do a thing, just enjoy the day.  I don't have many good pictures from the reception because I just enjoyed it instead, but here are a few snaps to at least help us remember what a crowd we have that love our children so well and help us point them to Christ.

Me and my boy.
Then Sadie moved in on him...
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We are so thankful for our sweet Samuel.  And what a privilege to raise him alongside such a supportive family and church family.  We pray that as he grows and learns about the God who loves him far beyond even our love for him, that he will stand firm in his identity as Christ's own and put his trust in Christ Jesus.

"I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him.  So now I give him to the Lord.  For his whole life he will be given over to the Lord.”  1 Samuel 1:27

Anglican 101

So, we’re Anglican. 

I know that’s a weird and unfamiliar word to many of you.  But it’s not a weird denomination.  At all.  I promise :)

We both grew up Baptist but have been attending an Anglican church (which we LOVE) for six years.  At Wheaton, Kolby experienced and was really drawn to a more formal, historical expression of worship and so, when we moved here and planted roots, he took me a little out of my comfort zone and we visited some churches outside of the more familiar Baptist, non-denominational, and Bible churches. We visited a large Anglican church that Kolby liked a lot but was too formal for me, but it just so happened that the church was launching a new church plant nearby that was small and more casual.  We met with the pastor and his wife and heard their heart and vision for the church and furthering the kingdom of God, and we knew instantly we wanted to be in on it.  The rest is history, I guess!

So, for anyone interested in hearing more about this “Anglican” thing, read on…

[And be warned this got way longer than I intended!  But I'm never one to be short-winded, and I actually learned some stuff as I was putting this together.]

A quick summary

Anglican literally means English, and the Anglican Church simply means the Church of England.  It took on that name when separating off from the Roman Catholic Church during the reformation in the 16th century.  Anglicanism is the largest Protestant denomination and the third largest Christian religious body in the world (after Roman Catholicism and Eastern Orthodoxy). Its membership consists of 80 million people in 164 countries. Anglicanism is often referred to as the via media, the “middle way,” between Protestantism and Catholicism. Like Protestants, Anglicans understand Scripture as the final authority for teaching and preaching. Like Catholics, Anglicans embrace the traditions of worship from the ancient Church.

If it’s such a huge denomination, how on earth have I never heard of it?

The Anglican Church here in the U.S. took on the name “Episcopal,” because during the Revolutionary War, it wasn’t cool to say you were part of the Church of England.  The Episcopal Church is the American wing of the worldwide Anglican Church.  But in the last few decades the Episcopal Church started liberalizing on some theological matters, and about ten years ago a group of Episcopal churches in the U.S. decided to realign themselves with the beliefs and theology of the worldwide Anglican Church.  This group broke away from the name “Episcopal” and reverted to “Anglican.”  There haven’t been churches in the U.S. with the Anglican name until fairly recently, so you might not have even come across one yet.

You’ve probably heard of Anglicans and just didn’t know it. Many noted evangelical scholars and authors are Anglican, including C.S. Lewis, John Stott, J.I. Packer and N.T. Wright.

What do Anglicans believe?

Because Anglican is such a foreign word to many, people often ask what we believe, namely—what makes your denomination different from mine?  And I don’t really have a good answer for that because Anglicanism is anything but unique.  We don’t have a defining thing that makes us different. 

Our statement of belief is just this:  the Nicene Creed.  This statement of belief, which all Christians have adopted since it was crafted in 325 A.D., is the bare minimum standard for what it means to be a Christian.  There are lots of other topics that churches can land on either side of (how/when to baptize, women’s role in ministry, if/how to use music, etc.), but this unifying creed is the litmus test for Christianity and outlines the core beliefs of the Anglican Church.

The Via Media

Anglicans hold on to the Catholic heritage in the ancient creeds, sacraments, and the threefold ministry of deacons, priests, and bishops, but Anglicans embrace the elements of the Reformation that focus on Biblical authority, have a firm commitment to the doctrine of justification by faith, and have a missionary zeal to bring others into life in Christ.

This idea of being the via media—the middle way—means, to quote a former Anglican Archbishop, we are “at the same time evangelical, apostolic, catholic, reformed, and Spirit-filled.”  I’ve found that to be the case.  Some Anglican worship services are hard to distinguish from a Catholic service.  Others feel almost Pentecostal—lots of spontaneous prayers or raised hands during worship.  At our church, there would be some things that felt really “high church”—we recite prayers together, we serve communion every week—but there’s plenty that feels like a typical evangelical service—announcements, sermons, contemporary worship songs.

Like other protestant churches, Anglicans have a heavy focus on scripture.  Like Catholics, Anglicans have a sacramental theology, which means that we believe that communion and baptism are holy moments instituted by Jesus that express God’s grace. 

Liturgy

Patterns of worship vary widely among churches (traditional, contemporary, etc.).  Anglican churches are liturgical, which translates to “the work of the people” and just means that Anglican worship is an act of the entire congregation.  Worship in the early church was liturgical—it was not a passive experience but a participatory action and event in which the assembled people of God actively worshipped together as a Church.  Incorporating the Psalms, creeds, hymns, and verses used by the earliest Christians reminds us that we do not worship God in a historical vacuum, but are connected to God’s people throughout time.

Liturgy expresses what we believe and bears witness to the story of our faith.  My personal favorite part of this is that in this model, the sermon isn’t the headlining event.  That comes toward the beginning of the service.  Instead, everything builds to communion, where we are reminded of Jesus’ death and resurrection, and we receive his grace and forgiveness together as a body.

Baptism

I wrote a bit about this topic already when Beckett was baptized (read here). But in the Anglican Church, a person may be baptized at any age.  We commonly baptize infants as an expression of obedience and accept the grace of God on their behalf.  This tradition has its origins in Colossians 2:11-12 when Paul identifies baptism as the “circumcision of Christ,” a practice that initiated eight-day-old infant males to the covenant made by Abraham.  Infant baptism is not a substitute for a child’s eventual individual expression of faith in God and decision to turn from sin and put their trust in Jesus Christ, but rather an important sign of God's pre-existent love and adoption of them.

Eucharist, aka Communion, aka the Lord’s Supper

Eucharist is the sacramental communion between Christ and his members (1 Corinthians 10: 16). We celebrate it every Sunday and it is the focal point of the worship service.

The first Christians were Jews, and in the Jewish faith, all liturgy (public worship) is ultimately about covenant renewal.  Israel’s very existence depended upon continual renewal of her covenant with God.  The early church viewed the Eucharist in the same light.  It was not a “ritual” but a covenant with God that was continually renewed upon entering into communion with the risen Lord.  In short, for the first Christians the Eucharist constituted the Church and so became the central act of worship.

During Eucharist, we engage in the Church’s central act of praise and thanksgiving (the word “Eucharist” simply comes from the Greek word for “thanksgiving”), renew our covenant with Christ as his Church, and receive from him the fruits of his death and resurrection offered in this sacrament.

Church governance, ordination

Basically, there are two forms of church government: congregational and episcopal.  A congregational church is independent—ruling itself, electing its own leaders, and ordaining its own clergy.  Baptist, Bible and several other denominations follow this model.  Episcopal (I’m not talking about the Episcopal denomination noted above, which I know is confusing!) is a church system governed by a hierarchy of bishops.  The title bishop comes from the Greek word episkopos, which translates as overseer.  Bishops have authority over a group of churches, called a diocese.  Decisions are made with the input and recommendation of the local congregation members, but ultimately, priests and bishops—having been ordained by God to shepherd the church—have the final say.

Episcopal governance is the predominant pattern in Catholic and Anglican churches and is also common in Methodist and Lutheran churches, among others.  These churches have three types of ministers, all based in scripture (I Timothy 3:1, 3:13, 5:17, 1 Peter 5:1-3): the diakoneo (translated "deacon"), presbyteros (translated "priest"), and episkopos (tranlated "bishop").  In the Anglican tradition, deacons, priests, and bishops are ordained to particular roles, but ministry is still considered to be a vocation of all Christians.  Ordination is also considered a sacrament because it is believed that God empowers the person, through the Holy Spirit, to fulfill their particular ministry and calling. Ordination is always conferred by the laying on of hands by one or more Bishops as an outward sign of the inward reality of God's call.  In a priestly ordination, all the priests of the diocese lay hands upon the ordinand following the example of Scripture: "Neglect not the gift that is in you, which was given you with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery" (1 Tim. 4:14, Acts 8:18).

OK-that's what I've got.  Please don't hesitate to ask questions or talk about any of this further sometime!

Beckett's First Birthday

We had such a wonderful time celebrating our boy's very first birthday!  Him turning one was bittersweet for sure, but I tried to focus on the sweet part and what a wonderful first year of life he had!

We wanted to keep his party low key and really focus on enjoying the day with him.  We had just our immediate families over to our house for breakfast.  I had fun making a few decorations so the house would look festive but I didn't do much because it's not like Beckett knows what Pinterest is so the bar was set pretty low.  For food Kolby picked up some stuff from our neighborhood donut shop that he and Beckett take their Saturday morning dates to.  Nothing fancy, but perfect.  I figured who wouldn't want to walk in the door to a spread of chocolate-covered donuts with sprinkles and a pitcher of chocolate milk?!?  Sounded like heaven to me at least, and I was in charge :)

Beckett's first stuffed animal that he really locked on to early on was this little fox that I got at Ikea a few weeks before he was born.  Then somehow he ended up with a lot of fox-themed clothes, books, etc. and it just became his little motif.  So it seemed natural to throw him a fox party.  I know what you are all thinking, and no, it had nothing to do with that stupid song (Wa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa-pow!).  We dressed Beckett up as the cutest little fox there ever was, and we love the movie Fantastic Mr. Fox so we had that playing in the background.  We used Wheaton College colors (Kolby's Alma Mater) but that was really just a coincidence of orange from foxes and me wanting to reuse anything navy from the luncheon we had after Beckett's baptism.  I'm happy with how everything turned out and more so with how stress-free it all was!

Kolby and I made Beckett's cake together the night before while watching the movie I.Q.  It was a little date, and the cake turned out amazing if I do say so myself.  I baked and iced it, and Kolby was in charge of the fox.  He's a wonder with pumpkin carving so I figured it was a good job for him, and he totally nailed it.  Beckett double-fisted his slice so I'd say it was an overall success.

I wish I had more pictures from his party but I just enjoyed it instead.  Thankfully a few people snapped some and I'm so glad to have those.  So, here's a peek at Beckett's first birthday party!




We had invited his little friends over to play the next day (his actual birthday) but it was Icemaggedon and the roads were still iffy for some.  So we just went to church as a family and then took Beckett to the aquarium and let him point at things to his heart's content.
 Then we had his friends over to play the next weekend and they had a blast!
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Happy first birthday, Beckett boy!  You are loved and cherished beyond measure.

Christmas 2014

**Clearly I'm really behind on blogging, but I don't want to give up!  There just aren't enough hours in the day for me to keep up like I used to be able to, but my goal is to still post here as often as I can.**

We had a wonderful but somewhat unconventional Christmas this year.  My entire family of 11 went on a week long ski trip to Breckenridge, CO.  It was all planned before we found out we were pregnant (and due 3 weeks before the trip) but we decided why not!?!  What better way to kick off life with two little ones than baptism by fire.

Our pediatrician advised us not to fly with a newborn because of germs at the airport and on the airplane, so we knew we would drive while the rest of the family flew.  But then it occurred to us that the only thing worse than a 13 hour road trip with a newborn would be a 13 hour road trip with a newborn AND a toddler who requires constant entertainment.  So we sent Beckett on the plane with his uncles and aunt and cousins, and my parents decided to drive with us in case we were sleep-deprived.  Thankfully with Samuel's early arrival we weren't all that tired and he was still super sleepy, so the trip was a breeze.  And Beckett LOVED getting to ride on an airplane and talked about it nonstop.

We all were in a great condo together until my 3 year old nephew Tucker came down with the flu the second day we were there.  So my brother and sister-in-law checked into a hotel for a couple nights to get him past the most contagious period, and thankfully it was a very mild case and he was feeling so much better even by the next day.  Miraculously no one else came down with it.  So everyone got to ski for a few days each, including me!  It was great to be on the slopes again.  I love to ski and have been dozens of times (we lived in Connecticut for a few years when I was in elementary school) but hadn't skied since college.

The cousins were SO HAPPY to be reunited at the condo on Christmas Eve, as were the rest of us, and then we spent Christmas morning at a tubing hill together and had a blast.

Beckett loved playing in the snow and Samuel just snoozed away inside.  It wasn't the most relaxing holiday with 4 kids 3 and under in a fairly small condo all day, but we all took turns skiing and caring for the little ones and had a lot of fun while we were at it!

Here are a few pictures.  And you'll notice I don't have any of my brothers, SIL or mom but I promise they were there and we all hung out ;)
Lots of snow at the condo!
 One of my favorite parts of the trip was skiing with my dad like the good ole days!
 Samuel had his own way of enjoying Colorado and all the snow...
 Kolby and I on the slopes:
 Beckett LOVED the snow!
Christmas Eve!  Beckett was so excited when my parents told him he got to open a present.
 Samuel was pretty excited too :)
 The cousins!  Love this crew.
 We had to exaggerate Beckett's height a little for him to be allowed on the tubing hill, but he was so brave and loved it.  Here he is walking with Pops and listening intently to the instructions.
 Ready to go!  We actually went A LOT faster than I was expecting, but Beckett did great!  We just paid for one run for him then he played the rest of the time in the lodge with Pops and the other kids while we adults got serious with some tubing competitions. 
I have to share these two pictures of Beckett.  He has such a potbelly that we couldn't zip his snow pants but he was in good company because I couldn't zip mine either.  And the second picture is when we went out to dinner one night and it was cold and snowing and even though we were only outside for a few minutes I'm pretty sure Beckett froze in that position.  Even after we got inside he didn't move for a few minutes.
 And then it was time to head home... and this little passenger slept like the sweet baby he is the whole way! 

And a few pictures from our own little Christmas at home this year..

At the tree lot.
 Love my flannel boys!
 He takes the decorating very seriously...
 Reading stories on the first day of advent.
 Our neighborhood has a Santa's Village that we go to every year and Beckett loves it.
What a great Christmas it was as a new family of four!
 
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